waggy
No Lifer
- Dec 14, 2000
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I'd say acting on attraction to a 16/17 year old if you're older than 19/20 is starting to get into the range of a real creeper. You have to understand, at that point, you're looking at high school sophomore/juniors dating college sophomore/juniors. At that point, the advantage is just stacked on the older person so that in many cases, the older (lets face it's it's almost always a guy) guy can take advantage of the younger teen.
For example, a 22 year old doing something with a 17 year old (legal age of consent in IL) would be someone that I would in all likelihood not hang out with since that would be a pretty messed up thing to do (In my view).
a 40 yr old being attracted to a 15/16/17 is understandable. the creeper part is if they try to date them.
now im not saying they can't be on a friendly bases but the adult has to set and know the boundries.
for instance i have known the kids (lol 16yr old girl adn 18 and 20 yr old boys) since they were well born. They all come over every now and then to kinda check on me (i have some sever health issues) and help me with stuff if i need it Or if they get a new computer or TV or such they come over to show it off (or drag me over therE). while they are my "friends" they also know i won't buy booze, smokes and will tell there parents if they are doign something stupid.