are you attracted to someone you can have a good argument with?

[moshquerade]

or would you rather have no disputes at all?

 

[kogase]

I'm not sure if I've ever had a good argument with a female. I mean, I know my argument was good, but...

 

[Brutuskend]

"I came here for a good argument!"

"No you didn't, you came here for a argument."

But to answer your question, Yeah, I like to argue.

 

[Schadenfroh]

Need to have a balance; a couple that has no arguments is a time bomb.

 

[chambersc]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
or would you rather have no disputes at all?

a good logical argument, coupled with looks, has scored my heart.

 

[everman]

A good argument does not always mean a dispute, sometimes it's more of just a good debate or conversation.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: everman
A good argument does not always mean a dispute, sometimes it's more of just a good debate or conversation.

true...

but you get what i am asking.

 

[Brutuskend]

The argument clinic

 

[iamme]

so long as we could step back and chill out from whatever argument we're having. intelligence is hot, but being stubborn isn't.

 

[iamme]

never arguing is weird, too.

 

[everman]

well I have no problem arguing as long as it's a rational argument conducted in a civilized manner. I don't respect someone's argument if they start yelling, etc.
Rational disagreement is fine and natural.

 

[maddogchen]

if you have great makeup sex afterwards. yeah

 

[neegotiator]

arguments are fine as long they're followed by hot make up sex

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
or would you rather have no disputes at all?

Interesting.
My parents fought constantly, my wife's parents never fought in front of their kids. Both sets divorced after 25 years of marriage.
In our relationship, I'm more likely to be confrontational and phrase criticism negatively, she's more likely to avoid confrontation and phrase something positively.

I love her and respect her as an equal, that means we have dissagreements and work them out as adults, appraently I think that adults are assh0les a lot more often that she does.
If I COULDN'T argue with her, it would bottle up and create a distance in the relationship I couldnt' stand.

^may not be what you were looking for... just thoughts.

 

[her209]

Good constructive conversations... yes. Arguments... no.

 

[GeekDrew]

yes. there's no way i would ever consider having any kind of relationship (or hell, for that matter, close friendship) with anyone that i had not had at least one argument with.

 

[Aarondeep]

I notice my wife is like that, after she is done arguing with me, she is all over me. (not that its a problem)

 

[HamburgerBoy]

Arguing is one of my favorite hobbies, so yes.

 

[PHiuR]

let's talk baby.

 

[imported_Tick]

I like to talk.

EDIT: POLLLLL!!!!!!

 

[astrocase]

Arguing is healthy. Not arguing is unhealthy.

/thread

 

[Jeff7]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend
"I came here for a good argument!"

"No you didn't, you came here for a argument."

But to answer your question, Yeah, I like to argue.

Malodorous pervert!


No arguments would be ideal of course. I don't like confrontation. However, if someone can make a civil, informed debate or argument, that is good. My roommate last semester for instance, we were polar opposite personalities. Our political views were generally very opposite. However, he could make informed arguments for his side. That's better than when someone can't debate, so they resort to personality attacks. If your side is really as good as you say, you should be able to use its strengths as the basis of your argument, instead of just saying that I'm too stupid to argue in the first place.
Informed debate is better, and more interesting, than baseless personal attacks.

 

[jagec]

A *good* argument, yes.

 

[DainBramaged]

I have yet to meet a woman who is up to my intellectual level.

 

[eakers]

no.
we discuss but not argue.

I'm very non-confrontational and start crying when people raise their voice or speak angry to me. I was raised in a house where my parents did not fight (ever) so that kind of thing really upsets me.