are you attracted to someone you can have a good argument with?

[Koing]

Convosation/ discussion :thumbsup: but it won't necessarily make me more attracted to her. That in itself is a very basic thing people should be able to do anyway.

Arguements are not good.

Koing

 

[Lola]

Arguements are a part of any relationship. I have found that those that do not argue, have pent up feelings/issues that become prevelent later on and that cause them to part ways.

So... yes, I am attracted to someone that i can have a good "go" at it with. To me, that is a bizaare form of passion.

 

[PricklyPete]

No disputes at all...although that usually signals a problem as well.

I prefer to be in a relationship where both of us see agree on a lot of things...so the need to argue would be pretty slight.

 

[y2kc]

not particularly. verbal jousting doesn't excite me. when i was younger maybe, but now, i'm all about like mindedness and compatibility based on similiar beliefs, values and morals.

 

[Czar]

a good discussion

 

[DougK62]

Huge turn on for me.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

argument no

debate yes

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
argument no

debate yes

agreed.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Arguements are a part of any relationship. I have found that those that do not argue, have pent up feelings/issues that become prevelent later on and that cause them to part ways.

So... yes, I am attracted to someone that i can have a good "go" at it with. To me, that is a bizaare form of passion.

i am with you 100% :thumbsup:

 

[sao123]

Ok so who got turned on while watching Marisa Tomei argue in My cousin vinney



Vinny Gambini: Is that a Drip im hearing?
Lisa: Yeah.
Vinny Gambini: Weren't you the last one to use the faucet?
Lisa: Yeah.
Vinny Gambini: Why didn't you turn it off?
Lisa: I DID turn it off!
Vinny Gambini: Well if you turned it off, why am I listening to if?
Lisa: Did it ever occur to you it could be turned off AND drip at the same time?
Vinny Gambini: No! Because if you'd turn it off, it wouldn't drip!
Lisa: Maybe it's broken.
Vinny Gambini: Is that what you say? It's broken?
Lisa: Yeah. That's it, it's broken.
Vinny Gambini: You sure?
Lisa: I'm positive.
Vinny Gambini: Maybe you didn't twist it hard enough.
Lisa: I twisted it just right.
Vinny Gambini: How could you be so sure?
Lisa: [sighs] You will look in the manual, you will see that this particular model faucet requires a range of 10 to 16 foot-pounds of torque. I routinely twisted the maximum allowable torquage.
Vinny Gambini: How could you be sure you used 16 foot-pounds of torque?
Lisa: Because I used a Crafstman model 1019 Laboratory Edition Signature Series torque wrench. The kind used by Caltech high energy physicists. And NASA engineers.
Vinny Gambini: Well, in that case, how can you be sure THAT's accurate?
Lisa: Because a split second before the torque wrench was applied to the faucet handle, it had been calibrated by top members of the state AND federal Department of Weights and Measures... to be dead on balls accurate! Here's the certificate of validation.
Vinny Gambini: Dead on balls accurate?
Lisa: It's an industry term.
Vinny Gambini: [tosses paper away] I guess the ****** thing is broken.

 

[radioouman]

Yes.
I love arguing with you, Mosh.

 

[GregGreen]

YES

 

[Nebor]

I just concede to every argument they make, and never argue back. Some people are fine with that, other people realize that I just don't care enough to argue and am treating them like a child.

My relationships aren't worth arguing over.

 

[Descartes]

As they say, it's not so much that you argue as it is how you end it. I love having discussions/debates, and I love a woman that enjoys the spirit of such an interaction.

On another note, I'm attracted to women that are open and honest. If you're angry with me, tell me and tell me why; I'll accept the criticism and try to prevent it. If people can't communicate I don't see any long-term possibilities for the relationship.

 

[Baked]

Only if we both end up naked w/ me playing hide the salami behind her.

 

[WildHorse]

Could be, if there's an undercurrent of friendship, love bond, humor between us.

If it's genuine emo hostility, then no.

 

[Sassy]

My dream is for peace and harmony at all times. There?s only one problem, though. I refuse to become a submissive wife or keep my mouth shut to allow my dream to become a reality.

I think arguments are only constructive in venting pent up feelings?this turns me off. Discussions and/or a good debate are more constructive?.AND often prevents a future argument. This turns me on, b/c it?s more difficult to accomplish especially if both of you are passionate on your opposing views.

 

[Gooberlx2]

Well, only in the sense that a "good argument" implies that she's intelligent and proud enough to stand up for herself. However, I tend not to be attracted to people that I argue with all the time.

 

[DaiShan]

Angry makeup sex FTW!

 

[Lonyo]

No disputes FTL.
I'd rather have someone challenging than a doormat.

 

[Iron Woode]

http://www.mindspring.com/~mfpatton/sketch.htm

LOL

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
or would you rather have no disputes at all?

SHUT UP, THAT'S NOT TRUE, AND I NEVER SAID THAT. :|


























:evil:

:beer: :heart: :lips:

 

[halik]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
or would you rather have no disputes at all?

totally... bright women are hot.

 

[xSauronx]

Originally posted by: DaiShan
Angry makeup sex FTW!

damn right

 

[johnjohn320]

My girlfriend and I got into a heated argument about Michael Moore once on the steps of her dorm. Apparently we really got into it without realizing it, cause some guy came up and asked if we were ok, 'no fists are gonna fly, right?' It made us both laugh a lot.

She and I are both very opinionated people, often disagreeing. Our friends never thought we'd last because of it, and we just celebrated 16 months. When we argue, it's seriously just about the topic, we never get personal.