Are you happy

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Things have been very lonely and unhappy at my house. Once you start living with someone, things change I think.

My relationship got much better when we moved in together. There were a few issues at first, but nothing bad enough to cause unhappiness.

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend
More or less. Except that there's blood right now.



I slipped and punched a hole in it with a screwdriver last week.
Thank god my right hand is still good!

:Q

 

[Dr. Detroit]

Could be happier,

settled with this one chick 11yrs ago because we had a kid........ after that I changed a lot. She has changed some but we have drifted apart. I'm 29 now.

The kid and our sex life is what keeps us together. Definitely not the conversation or mutual interests.

 

[pancho619]

In every way possible

 

[blackdogdeek]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: blackdogdeek

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Things have been very lonely and unhappy at my house. Once you start living with someone, things change I think.

they should change definitely, but for the better, imo.

sounds like it is time to find another SO, i'm sorry to say.

After 3 years, it's hard to do that. I just want things to get better but I don't think they ever will.

life is hard. but the good thing is that you have the power to change your situation.

you can either:

a. break up and find someone better

or

b. talk to your current SO and try to make things better

either way things won't get better unless you do something.

 

[Crab cake]

Absolutely! I wish I had the nerves to ask her out when we first met. It would have been 8 more wonderful years.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

:heart: Indeed.

- M4H

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: ggnl

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Things have been very lonely and unhappy at my house. Once you start living with someone, things change I think.

My relationship got much better when we moved in together. There were a few issues at first, but nothing bad enough to cause unhappiness.

My bf and I get on each other's nerves. It's like we are just friends now. I don't really feel that he loves me, and so, I slowly started to not even care anymore. He doesn't try. He says he is really busy and stressed out, and may'be he is, but I don't want to be last in line in his life. And sometimes I feel like I am. It's always been that way though. I just feel like I could deal with it before. I don't feel wanted anymore. I told him about it, and he agreed that he felt the same, but he thinks that we can work at it. But nothing has changed.

 

[dquan97]

she's the only one I look forward to seeing and being with

 

[ITJunkie]

More than I can possibly say. We have been together for 24 years and married for 15.
She is the best woman & friend I have ever or will ever know.
She's kick@$$ in the sack too!!

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: ggnl

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Things have been very lonely and unhappy at my house. Once you start living with someone, things change I think.

My relationship got much better when we moved in together. There were a few issues at first, but nothing bad enough to cause unhappiness.

My bf and I get on each other's nerves. It's like we are just friends now. I don't really feel that he loves me, and so, I slowly started to not even care anymore. He doesn't try. He says he is really busy and stressed out, and may'be he is, but I don't want to be last in line in his life. And sometimes I feel like I am. It's always been that way though. I just feel like I could deal with it before. I don't feel wanted anymore. I told him about it, and he agreed that he felt the same, but he thinks that we can work at it. But nothing has changed.

Those feelings are so typical. It takes WORK once the honeymoon stage is over. You guys have to do those little things for each other that are special.

 

[JDub02]

Originally posted by: CrackRabbit
95% of the time yes, she does a couple of things that annoy me though. I cope, its no big deal.

same here.

 

[MartyMcFly3]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend
More or less. Except that there's blood right now.



I slipped and punched a hole in it with a screwdriver last week.
Thank god my right hand is still good!

damn you for posting something similar to what i was going to post...

 

[Pliablemoose]

:thumbsup:

 

[NuclearNed]

I'm EXTREMELY happy with my wife - and she's been doing a hardcore workout for the past year, so she's getting hotter every single day.

What more could a man want?


EDIT: we dated 5 years, then married for 10.5

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: NuclearNed
I'm EXTREMELY happy with my wife - and she's been doing a hardcore workout for the past year, so she's getting hotter every single day.

What more could a man want?


EDIT: we dated 5 years, then married for 10.5

Two of her?

On second thought, two of my fiancée would probably wear me out in a week. :Q But oh, what a week it would be!

- M4H

 

[NuclearNed]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: NuclearNed
I'm EXTREMELY happy with my wife - and she's been doing a hardcore workout for the past year, so she's getting hotter every single day.

What more could a man want?


EDIT: we dated 5 years, then married for 10.5

Two of her?

On second thought, two of my fiancée would probably wear me out in a week. :Q But oh, what a week it would be!

- M4H

There are MUCH worse ways to go. It would take a team of plastic surgeons to remove the insane smile from my lifeless face.

 

[Fingers]

5 years now and currently I can't stand her!

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: NuclearNed

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: NuclearNed
I'm EXTREMELY happy with my wife - and she's been doing a hardcore workout for the past year, so she's getting hotter every single day.

What more could a man want?


EDIT: we dated 5 years, then married for 10.5

Two of her?

On second thought, two of my fiancée would probably wear me out in a week. :Q But oh, what a week it would be!

- M4H

There are MUCH worse ways to go. It would take a team of plastic surgeons to remove the insane smile from my lifeless face.

:beer:

- M4H

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: Doboji
ummmm... yes.... It would be better though if my SO was Angelina Jolie

w3rd! teehee

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Well I am happy for everyone who has a good working relationship with their SO, but how many times did you try before you met the right women/man?

 

[GasX]

My wife and I were a couple for over 7 years before we got married in June of this year. I didn't think getting married was going to change a whole lot of things. It turns out there are a whole bunch of subtle changes in our relationship that have all been positive.

So, YES, I am happy.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Well I am happy for everyone who has a good working relationship with their SO, but how many times did you try before you met the right women/man?

Why don't you just come out and say that you are a very young male, seeking affirmation that your relentless pursuit of romance has hope of success. Once you've said that feel free to tell us about either the current girlfriend you are considering dumping. or the girlfriend who just dumped you.

It's ok... we've seen Skywalker66... relative to him, you are pimpalicious.

-Max

 

[Argo]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Are you happy in your present relationship?

No, not at all.

 

[JetsFanatic]

married 10 years


i hope so