Are you happy

[biostud]

I love me, myself and I

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: blackdogdeek

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Things have been very lonely and unhappy at my house. Once you start living with someone, things change I think.

they should change definitely, but for the better, imo.

sounds like it is time to find another SO, i'm sorry to say.

After 3 years, it's hard to do that. I just want things to get better but I don't think they ever will.

Here's some tough love advice for you:

Don't give us, or yourself that "its hard" crap. If it ain't going to get better, its going to get harder. Take the hard route now and you'll thank yourself for it later when you find a good chick instead of dooming yourself.

Sometimes, things just don't work out. And you said things got worse when you moved in together, that should not be so. You do tend to bug eachother a bit more, but it should really be a net plus when that step is made. If it isn't, somethings wrong.

Edit: just noticed you're a woman. The advice still stands, even moreso.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Well I am happy for everyone who has a good working relationship with their SO, but how many times did you try before you met the right women/man?

Why don't you just come out and say that you are a very young male, seeking affirmation that your relentless pursuit of romance has hope of success. Once you've said that feel free to tell us about either the current girlfriend you are considering dumping. or the girlfriend who just dumped you.

It's ok... we've seen Skywalker66... relative to him, you are pimpalicious.

-Max

^
^Lol, shows how much you know. I'm not going to dump anyone. If it's going to happen it's going to be mutual.

Mutual breakups do not exist. You basically just said you'll breakup if the fairies tell you too.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: OffTopic
I'm happy with my SO at about 90% of the time, but I don't know if she could say the same thing.

She called the cops on me last night (there is always the first time for everything) because I was being annoying.

I was just having a little fun with her, but didn?t know how far I went till she dialed 911 & 2 cops showed up at my door shortly.
I was giving her a little dose of her own medicine saying ?honey?eh,eh,he?? while patting her shoulder while she was on the computer?I did it about 8-9 times. And, she called the cops after swearing at me and throwing stuffs at me, and threatens to hit me?and being the ahole that I?m, I laugh at the situation because she was throwing a tantrum. She threw the tandrum because & was being anoying and asked her to wait 5 minutes till I finish with the computer (I was trying to help her with her request/demand from an hour earlier).
I love her with all of my heart, but at time it can be very trying because she is very demanding, such as get her water when she still is up and around while I?m in bed & about to go to sleep. There are times she would even wake me up and ask (tell?demand) me to get her water. She would tell me how to dress & demand that I dress the way that she wanted me to. She would ask me to help her with her home work?more like wake me up at 2-3 am and tell me to correct her home work (and sometime feel more like doing her homework for her). And, the most annoying thing of all is that she would climb on my lap or on my back when I?m working, and if I ignore it and concentrate on the task at hand, she would say snide remarks such as, ?do you know what you are doing??, ?hey I say do you know what you are doing??, ?what the heck are you doing?, or ask me silly questions that she know the answers to and demand that I answers her right at that moment.

Sorry for the rant, but I?m still don?t know that to think of things especially having the cops visiting my home with distrusting look from one of the female cop.

IMHO, I need to see a buddy & have a beer to clear my head...I hope that she allow me to do this this time.

I think it might be a good idea to dump her. She called the cops on you for that? Yeah, you might have been annoying but you don't call the cops on some one for being annoying.

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
NO

because I have no SO

I'm single!

:wine: :moon: :music: :gift:

Ok...come on over to Hawaii then Nik.....then we can post pics here on AT....hehe

 

[Hav0k99]

Yes I went out with her for 7 years and been married for 2! She is my soul mate.

 

[Muadib]

Yes, she makes me happy 90% of the time.