- Oct 24, 2000
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To make a long story short: my parents divorced 2 years ago. During the whole ordeal, I learned things about them both, especially about my mother, that I would have preferred not to learn. Both admit that their 26 years of marriage was a mistake. As always, one parent, my mom, had a "happier" life after the divorce as she is the one who wanted it. My father, on the other hand, went to hell and back and is finally starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. In the last two years, they've maybe spoken once to each other and continue to talk badly about each other through me, even though I have been away at college the whole time (they do live nearby). For religious reasons, my father is struggling over whether or not he should re-marry. My mother has been dating a guy for a year now and plans to marry him and move off to a foreign country. I don't know why, but even though they were both a$$es to each other quite often during their marriage, I have been far more sympathetic of my father and been quite condemning of my mother. It seems like she can't do anything right. I really don't know if I can approve of/support her marriage to this new guy. But does she need my support? I don't think so. At this point, I just want to wash the whole situation from my hands.
My question to you who have divorced parents: how long did it take you to get over the situation and move on? How long did it take you to love your parents equally again?
My question to you who have divorced parents: how long did it take you to get over the situation and move on? How long did it take you to love your parents equally again?