Every child who grows up as a Muslim knows the story of Abu Lahab by heart (we had it drilled into us), so I or any of the millions of people who grew up as Muslims in the nation you live in can easily correct you on the first verse you quoted.
The second quote... You don't seriously think that your explanation of it makes sense, do you? Who is "we"? God? Who is he referring to in the plural, himself and, I dunno, Moses? Jesus? The Holy Ghost? Anyone with a understanding of basic grammar knows there's something fishy there.
The third you've taken from some very odd translation, and then took what's obviously a retelling of history and are pretending that it's some sort of commandment. Again, unless you're completely hopeless with languages you know that doesn't work.
Yet again, I'm probably the most critical person of religion in this forum, but when you're lying about how the Koran reads, I'll correct those facts - just like I'd speak up and correct a slur I knew was untrue against even my worst enemy. But yeah, go on about that "tribal Islamic double standard" if you need to. Damned Canadian...urban Toronto...agnostic...tribes.