My parents, and most Vietnamese and a good amount of asians out there tend to identify themselves as Buddhists..and the basic underlying principle of being a buddhist is that want and greed create suffering, so basically if you rid yourself of such want and greed you will live a much more fulfilling life. Parents, such as mine, would bring me to the temple every week as a kid to practice this religion and its beliefs were instilled upon me.
That said however, I would say it's safe to say that most asian parents, including mine, push their kids into jobs and careers that will ultimately make them the most money, i.e. engineers, doctors, business type people..rather than happiness/satisfaction. In fact satisfaction of a job often is ranked well below what salary is. Sure there are lots of engineers, doctors, etc., that really do enjoy what they do, but there are plenty that are simply forced into these paths against their will simply because they have the best chance of striking riches.
Personally my parents constantly remind me that I need to get the best grades all the time so that I can get the best jobs upon graduating, which would of course lead to the "best" money..but does this just not contradict their own religious beliefs?
My parents have never been rich, having lived in Vietnam up until their mid 30's..having moved here with absolutely nothing and have slowly moved their way up toward middle class status since I was born, and it's all just a matter of them not wanting me to end up with nothing as they once did in their lives..which is mainly the reason they chose to restart their lives to move into a foreign land where they knew no one and barely spoke the language..so that I could have the opportunity that I do today.
However it doesn't require me to necessarily be able to be an MBA graduate..but it still seems that I would be letting down their all sacrifices if I just chose to live a simple basic life..
That said however, I would say it's safe to say that most asian parents, including mine, push their kids into jobs and careers that will ultimately make them the most money, i.e. engineers, doctors, business type people..rather than happiness/satisfaction. In fact satisfaction of a job often is ranked well below what salary is. Sure there are lots of engineers, doctors, etc., that really do enjoy what they do, but there are plenty that are simply forced into these paths against their will simply because they have the best chance of striking riches.
Personally my parents constantly remind me that I need to get the best grades all the time so that I can get the best jobs upon graduating, which would of course lead to the "best" money..but does this just not contradict their own religious beliefs?
My parents have never been rich, having lived in Vietnam up until their mid 30's..having moved here with absolutely nothing and have slowly moved their way up toward middle class status since I was born, and it's all just a matter of them not wanting me to end up with nothing as they once did in their lives..which is mainly the reason they chose to restart their lives to move into a foreign land where they knew no one and barely spoke the language..so that I could have the opportunity that I do today.
However it doesn't require me to necessarily be able to be an MBA graduate..but it still seems that I would be letting down their all sacrifices if I just chose to live a simple basic life..