Assault/Battery Charges

[fallenangel99]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: moshquerade
how old are you?

23.5 Im in my last quarter of undergrad

Are you stupid or something? Most people graduate college at 21. I guess judging by your actions you are.

 

[MmmSkyscraper]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion
Just seems like a dumb decision on their part, I mean they put 23 years into someone, then they just blow it by acting like asses, but thats just how i feel right now, maybe my feelings will change.

Seems like their effort was wasted. Maybe it's you that's acting like the ass?! Fvck sake, get a clue.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion
...told me that i was no longer welcome to live there and i had to move out immediately for one month. I told them they were being assholes, and to let me move out in the morning, I wasnt going to leave. Then my mom said she would call the cops, and I was thinking to myself wtf, but i said to her "do it" then shes like "you DONT want me to go there.." and i said " I dont give a ******.." I wasnt yelling or anything, i was pretty calm.

OP, based on this part of your conversation you were throwing an attitude with your parents, even if you believe you said it calmly.

 

[ArchCenturion]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

BTW, OP, are you paying for your college or are your parents paying for it? (i.e. - Are you still dependant on your parents financially if not emotionally?)

This is a valid question, no matter what you believe.

 

[classy]

Well maybe you shouldn't have slapped your brother like that, but siblings do quarrel and fight. I think the whole thing with you and your parents is way overboard. As a parent I think they clearly over-reacted, but you gotta be little lighter on your younger brother.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy

Originally posted by: akubi
you squeeze your bro's thighs?

I think he means right above the kneecap. It is an annoying feeling.

I can't do it. I have knalves.

 

[50cent1228]

ur a retard - this is my opinion of the op

 

[classy]

And all these other posts are just plain dumb. I don't think dude meant to hurt his brother. All this assault stuff is just dumb. In reality this really is not a big deal. Older brother here though has got be little easier with younger brother though. Man I can tell from the stupid posts, many here are not parents. As stupid as some of these posts sound, some of yall would have your 3 year olds locked for littering if they spilled a glass of milk. God talk about growing up, some of yall need to look in the mirror.

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

Good. I strongly recommend that you be on your best behavior the entire time you stay under your friend's mother's roof. Be sure to be helpful even when not asked... take out the trash, clean up after yourself, contribute to the grocery bill.

Very soon (if not already) you will be paying your own car insurance, health insurance, etc. (Most policies allow adult children up to age 24 IF they are in college).

Hopefully you will be able to move forward in your relationship with your family, but probably not until you have actually lived on your own as a responsible adult for a while.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

There must be some issues between you guys that were resolved right then.

 

[MmmSkyscraper]

Originally posted by: classy
And all these other posts are just plain dumb. I don't think dude meant to hurt his brother.

He shouldn't have punched him in the face then. GG.

 

[GoPackGo]

I would never talk to my parents again if I were you.

Freeze them out of your life...

 

[Turin39789]

Originally posted by: classy
And all these other posts are just plain dumb. I don't think dude meant to hurt his brother. All this assault stuff is just dumb. In reality this really is not a big deal. Older brother here though has got be little easier with younger brother though. Man I can tell from the stupid posts, many here are not parents. As stupid as some of these posts sound, some of yall would have your 3 year olds locked for littering if they spilled a glass of milk. God talk about growing up, some of yall need to look in the mirror.

Backhand to the face = not cool

 

[ArchCenturion]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: moshquerade
how old are you?

23.5 Im in my last quarter of undergrad

why aren't you living on campus or something?

time away from your parents and they from you would be helpful. it sounds like your actions, even more than clocking your brother, have put them over the edge.

I think you are right. They only kicked me out for a month, but right now, I dont think i will be going back.

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

BTW, OP, are you paying for your college or are your parents paying for it? (i.e. - Are you still dependant on your parents financially if not emotionally?)

This is a valid question, no matter what you believe.

I am paying for college tuition, parking, books, car, insurance, cell phone, registration, etc. My parents were saving me rent payment. I will have to probably have to cut down on my snowboarding to have enough money to pay rent if it comes to that. Currently im living with my friend and his mom in their 4 bedroom home. Its dirty as hell, and I told them that i would be able to help organize/clean/repair pretty much everything. (on a side note, i have never seen a home as dirty or cluttered as my friends home, i think most of it might just be an accumulation of cat fur and crap.)

Emotionally i do not think that i am dependent on my parents at all. I stayed with my parents for so long because it is financially the best decision.

Someone mentioned having a house by the time they were 23, I think that is pretty amazing and by no means a "norm." I am happy just graduating, getting my ME degree, and starting out with zero debt.

Low end houses her in Mission Viejo are around 500K I dont see myself affording one of those any time soon.

 

[Turin39789]

Who the hell slaps a 14 year old?

 

[vi edit]

If that's assault, then some of the stuff that my cousins do to each other what my uncles did to each other would be considered attempted murder.

Siblings slap each other around. They've done that forever, and will continue to do it forever.

Sounds to me like the family has a ton of communication problems and that this was just a catalyst for their underlying feelings.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: GoPackGo
I would never talk to my parents again if I were you.

Freeze them out of your life...

did you just wake up today and become an ass or have you been one your whole life?

 

[Cooler]

23 is way to old to be hitting brother. Your an adult act like one it is that simple.

 

[dxkj]

How old is your brother... you are 23.5 and hit him in the face? You are a pathetic excuse for a human.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: moshquerade
how old are you?

23.5 Im in my last quarter of undergrad

why aren't you living on campus or something?

time away from your parents and they from you would be helpful. it sounds like your actions, even more than clocking your brother, have put them over the edge.

I think you are right. They only kicked me out for a month, but right now, I dont think i will be going back.

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: ArchCenturion

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
1. Apologize to your brother.
2. Apologize to your parents.
3. Get a roommate and move out.
4. Anger management.

1. Done
2. Done
3. Done, I moved in with my friend and his mom.
4. I dont think this is necessary, there was no point when i was actually angry, and if i do get angry or frustrated I usually can take a long run and after that im fine. I was actually most annoyed that my parents would kick me out so abruptly, and not give me a chance to get all my ******. I have subsequently gone back and grabbed the rest of my stuff when one of my brothers was home.

BTW, OP, are you paying for your college or are your parents paying for it? (i.e. - Are you still dependant on your parents financially if not emotionally?)

This is a valid question, no matter what you believe.

I am paying for college tuition, parking, books, car, insurance, cell phone, registration, etc. My parents were saving me rent payment. I will have to probably have to cut down on my snowboarding to have enough money to pay rent if it comes to that. Currently im living with my friend and his mom in their 4 bedroom home. Its dirty as hell, and I told them that i would be able to help organize/clean/repair pretty much everything. (on a side note, i have never seen a home as dirty or cluttered as my friends home, i think most of it might just be an accumulation of cat fur and crap.)

Emotionally i do not think that i am dependent on my parents at all. I stayed with my parents for so long because it is financially the best decision.

Someone mentioned having a house by the time they were 23, I think that is pretty amazing and by no means a "norm." I am happy just graduating, getting my ME degree, and starting out with zero debt.

Low end houses her in Mission Viejo are around 500K I dont see myself affording one of those any time soon.

Well then, good for you. Good thing you moved out, too. Yeah, houses are expensive unless you live in the South. Once you get a decent job though, it might not be a bad ideas to invest in a small house in an okay neighborhood. Being so young, you don't have to live in an area with low crime and good schools. Just get a place that is close to where you work for cheap, and then when you get a family move and sell the place for a profit. You build equity that way.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: dxkj
How old is your brother... you are 23.5 and hit him in the face? You are a pathetic excuse for a human.

Brothers fight. Even when they are older. It's over. He apologized.

 

[DrPizza]

Originally posted by: classy
Well maybe you shouldn't have slapped your brother like that, but siblings do quarrel and fight. I think the whole thing with you and your parents is way overboard. As a parent I think they clearly over-reacted, but you gotta be little lighter on your younger brother.

Siblings may quarrel and fight, but generally only when there are only a few years difference in age. At 10 years apart in age, I have trouble believing that there are things they'd fight over. i.e. at ages of 6 and 16, did they fight over the Tonka truck?? The OP was legally an adult when the kid was 8 years old. When I was the OP's age, I had a wife, house, and a child. I also had a younger brother, about 10 years younger than me, but I can't recall ever having a fight or quarrel with him.

 

[dxkj]

just read, you could afford rent if you didnt snowboard? get your priorities straight.

 

[yllus]

Your best moves at this point in time:

1. Do a very formal apology to your mother, father and brother with all of them present in the same room. Say it was disrespectful to your parents because it's their house, apologize to your brother for overreacting, make it nice and sincere. You should try to mean it too.

2. Get them to relent on moving out as a result of #1. Do this by not asking to be allowed to stay, but that you need some time to get things in order to be able to move.

3. After they let you stay, realize they don't want you there. They're simply too willing to do this. For real, start getting your stuff in order and move ASAP. While things may be temporarily repairs, things can only get worse from here.

4. By maximum age 17, my sister and I had realized that it's too dangerous and stupid to fight physically with each other. The strength of an adult can be pretty surprised, and anger can make you go too far. Grow up.