- Jan 2, 2006
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My aunt has pancreatic cancer and is in her end stages. I think she signed papers in Washington state giving durable medical power of attorney to her husband should she become incapacitated.
Two weeks ago they took a trip to Hawaii (Honolulu). She collapsed in Honolulu, went to the ER, and got admitted to hospice. Her husband now has power of attorney when she entered into a coma.
Since then, she has recovered greatly. She has woken up, is talking, having normal conversation, a good amount of energy, etc. The doctors in Honolulu cleared her to fly back to Seattle on a private plane.
She really wants to go back to Seattle. Her husband forbids it and is not listening to medical advice. He's always been a control freak (his wife's words, not mine), but this time he actually has legal authority.
Does anyone know how to revoke a durable medical power of attorney once the principle gets better, while the principal is out of state? We need this done asap because a lot of his recent decisions have severely decreased my aunt's quality of life and even put her recovery in jeopardy.
We also think her husband wants her to die in Hawaii, because if she died in their house in Seattle the house value would go down, meaning he would be left with less. He's never worked a day in his life while he was married to my aunt.
Two weeks ago they took a trip to Hawaii (Honolulu). She collapsed in Honolulu, went to the ER, and got admitted to hospice. Her husband now has power of attorney when she entered into a coma.
Since then, she has recovered greatly. She has woken up, is talking, having normal conversation, a good amount of energy, etc. The doctors in Honolulu cleared her to fly back to Seattle on a private plane.
She really wants to go back to Seattle. Her husband forbids it and is not listening to medical advice. He's always been a control freak (his wife's words, not mine), but this time he actually has legal authority.
Does anyone know how to revoke a durable medical power of attorney once the principle gets better, while the principal is out of state? We need this done asap because a lot of his recent decisions have severely decreased my aunt's quality of life and even put her recovery in jeopardy.
We also think her husband wants her to die in Hawaii, because if she died in their house in Seattle the house value would go down, meaning he would be left with less. He's never worked a day in his life while he was married to my aunt.