People find comfort in religion in situations like terminal illness because we don't like to feel powerless. Prayer makes us feel like we're helping our loved one, even though it accomplishes nothing. If the person happens to get better, it just affirms their faith.
Of course this isn't how the universe works. The best metaphor for life I've come across is a game of poker. There's some order and skill to it, but a lot of the outcome depends on random chance and luck. Some folks just get dealt a bad hand, while others players at the same table always seem to hold a straight flush. Then there are some folks who are just really good at bluffing. All you can do is just play your cards to the best of your abilities and try to enjoy the ride.
Just look at how many large rocks are whizzing around the local Solar System, and how many have hit this planet. Or how the ecosystem has undergone immense changes from time to time, particularly in how it went from a low-oxygen environment to what we have now.
The Universe just doesn't give a damn about us. We're localized orderly pockets of molecules, which are able to observe that, and many of these localized pockets don't
like being called localized orderly pockets of molecules.
Plenty of other pockets of molecules (or atoms, or plasma) go about their business without caring about the nature of their existence; many of them aren't even capable of caring. Likewise, the rest of the Universe also doesn't care.
But we're here just the same. Deal with it.
Praying never did anyone harm. However hospital deaths accounted for 29 percent of all deaths in 2010. So yeah, thank you medical science for not making me part of your unlucky 81 percent.
And death by medical error is the third leading cause of death in the US. More people die at the hands of medical malpractice than auto accidents by a factor of six. This doesn't even account for those who are seriously harmed and injured. My unwavering belief in big pharma and doctors has paid off. Thank you Jesus.
It certainly can if you do that in lieu of something that's has genuine use, beyond a morale boost.
IMHO the atheists are worse. I've met plenty of stupid religious people and plenty of stupid atheists. Generally the religious people are nice, decent folk.
Not if you're gay, for one.
Or of the wrong religion. Or of the wrong grouping withing the same religion. Or if you don't pray enough. Or don't pray properly. Or hold the wrong opinions. And so on.
If anything, their religious beliefs reinforce a basic moral system.
So simple and basic, in fact, that there's no disagreement at all on how it should be followed, and no contradictions in behavior, or in the rules themselves.
:hmm:
(Any Christians here work on Sunday? I sure hope not.)
On the other hand, atheists are so convinced of their intellectual superiority over the rest of humanity that they come off as a bunch of smug d-bags whenever the topic of religion comes up.
On the other hand, faith-based religious folks are so convinced of their intellectual superiority that they simply say "because I believe it, and faith is all that's needed," effectively saying, evidence isn't needed. It's to be believed and accepted just because.
Smugness comes oozing from the religious as well.
"You don't believe in God? Well, I'll pray for you. [Subtext: You poor misguided fool, you'll rot in damnation forever. At least
I won't.]"
"You don't believe in God? How can you be a moral person? [Subtext: Everyone who doesn't believe in God would feel absolutely nothing negative from murdering or harming another person, therefore you are nothing short of evil.]"
"How can you know love without religion or Jesus? [Subtext: Love is impossible without being part of my religion.]"
"You're an atheist, so don't really know anything about the world. [Subtext: My beliefs come from a higher power, and I have faith in those beliefs, therefore there is a
zero percent chance I am incorrect. This is not smugness.]"
Been there, heard that.
Thus far, the system of generating conclusions based on testable observations has worked quite exceptionally well. Faith based methods have no more success than one would have with pure random chance.