I had cancer two years ago and was flooded from family members and friends with messages like "Keeping you in our prayers" "Praying for you" etc. I got letters from churches I'd never heard of, though their cards were nice but I'd never met these people.
When I was cured much of my family used language such as "Praise God!", "God is good!", "Thank the Lord!", etc...I am not religious in any fashion. I don't claim any religion, nor atheism nor agnosticism. I'm just simply not spiritual in any way and do not concern myself with religion much at all.
What bothered me most was hearing Thank God or Thank the Lord after I was cured. I wanted to say "No, if you want to thank someone send my oncologist, surgeon, and nurses some cards. I can give you their names and where to reach them. Also thank my insurance company who paid out over $120,000 on my treatment, and my mother who covered the rest."
For people to say God is Good because I was cured usually angers me. I know I am alive today only because I happened to be born in this country to a middle class family who happened to have good health insurance and the money to cover my treatments. I happen to have gotten cancer in 2011 when an effective treatment had been well tested and had proven results. Had it been back in 1991, or worse earlier, I likely would not have lived two years post diagnosis, as I am now.
Yet I rarely confront anyone over it. I know it's just a way of language, some people say such things without even being very religious themselves. For others it's the only thing they know to say and they realize that they have no real way of helping and so put faith in a God to help me for them.
I was not looking for a God, nor did I find a God through my cancer. For me to believe in a God I'd have to believe he caused the cancer, as nobody was involved in that. I would not be able to believe he cured it, as that means he would have done so in a very convoluted way of going through multiple physicians and large amounts of money. I would have to believe he lets countless others die all the time from the same cancer. That, or I would have to believe in a God who is completely hands off.
But I don't fault others for believing. Sometimes I wish I could believe in something the way they do, but I just don't.