Bachelor party secrets...

[Turin39789]

Originally posted by: ghost recon88

Originally posted by: VTrider
You can almost pick out who is married, single, happily married, etc. based just on their comments alone. People who justify 'fooling around' right before your wedding, in light of a 'technicality' either...

1. are not really in nor have respect for love
2. don't deserve to be anywhere near the institution of marriage yet
3. have watched too many 'bachelor party' movies on cable
4. are scumbags
5. all of the above

That being said, "I" would keep my mouth shut because what would be the 'gain'? If she didn't know before, she knows now what kind of 'guy' she has married - the cards will all fall in place.

QFT! I agree 100%

Yea, I'm kinda suprised at the number of guys that think it's ok to cheat on the woman you love before you get married. The bachelor's parties I've been to, the first one was a quiet night at a house with lots of alcohol and table tennis, bride was there too so I'm not sure what you call this one. Two involved drinking a lot and going to multiple strip clubs and going to bed at around 5 am, but no cheating. Last one the groom wussed on on us and was going to go to bed because he was getting tired, so we skipped the clubs and had him at least hang out and get drunk until the morning.

I mean fsck, even Tom hanks didn't do the deed in the movie Bachelor Party, If you're going to cheat you need to just step away from marriage and break up with the woman. You want to be with her or you don't. If you want to sleep around at least tell her and break it off like a man instead of sneaking around.

 

[Aharami]

keep ur mouth shut

 

[MasonLuke]

hey kids, you NEVER tell period. Trust me, when its your turn, she probably wont let you have one. Dont break the ultimate man code violation!

 

[brandonbull]

Originally posted by: Aftermath
Third, I think it's total bullshit that it's apparently ok to sit there and lie about it as an accessory so that some knuckle dragging POS can get married to a woman who has no idea what just happened, who may find out 20 years later after she spent the better part of her life with this guy that cheated on her just days before her wedding day, especially if it's some naive girl who never saw it coming.

So that makes their marriage a waste. Oh noes! 20 years ago I was cheated on and now my life is totally worthless.

1) Don't get involved in someone else's marriage.
2) If you don't like what happened, you should move on with your life and don't talk to the groom anymore.

 

[SuperNaruto]

that happened to my friend's party.. 5 stripper giving hand and head.... i was like whao.. how much $$ did this cost... his wife ask me what happened.. i told her i passed out from drinking and dont remember a thing.. hahah...

 

[MasonLuke]

hey kid, you shouldnt been post things like this here, we have women at ATOT. traditions thats been passed on for generations will come to an end because of people like you. :|

 

[MasonLuke]

Originally posted by: SuperNaruto
that happened to my friend's party.. 5 stripper giving hand and head.... i was like whao.. how much $$ did this cost... his wife ask me what happened.. i told her i passed out from drinking and dont remember a thing.. hahah...

You are a smart one =)

 

[Injury]

Originally posted by: PClark99
Unless the bride is your sister, then shut your yap and let it lie.

:thumbsup:

A relationship where one person thinks that sort of thing is acceptable will work itself out anyway.

While I wouldn't do it myself and wouldn't think to much of a person that did it, I'm not going to be the one caught in the middle of that situation because it's not my business and not something I feel is my responsibility to do just because I was there.

He's his own man. If he wants to risk the girl he loves over some skanks that he has to pay for sex, that's his business.

 

[purepolly]

Originally posted by: Ameesh
no way, keep your mouth shut. if you rat on this guy none of your other friends will ever trust you for anything. (they would be justified), whether you agree with the guy or not you should stay out of it. the only time i would break this rule is the bride was my sister or close friend who i had a stronger obligation to and that to i would think long and hard about it and probably talk to the guy first.

So much for males being rational creatures. Just keep the BS rationalizations flowing.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

I'd tell her the same night.
With fair warning to the guy before he did the act.
If he decided to continue, well, sorry.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

MYOB

quite simple actually

 

[HardcoreRobot]

Originally posted by: akasha
dont insult the writing when it took YOU 3 times to READ. I didnt want to post a LONG LONG LONG unnecessary explanation. So, if you truly need a translation, here you go...

ASSUME that you(the reader) are buddies with the groom, "as time goes on"...like years down the road (do you need more of an explanation here?) YOU and your significant other (not mentioning a wife because I dont know what the preference is for the one READING this) grow to be close "COUPLE" Friends during the years.
Better?

***BTW, for the ones who constantly ask the irrelevant question who I "was" before being banned, I was NEVER banned. geeeez :disgust:

well, THIS quote - '20 of your male pals are off celebrating your ?last? freedom outing' - kinda makes it sound like 'the reader' is the groom. so many atot posts would be better without pronouns...

 

[GasX]

The only thing ANY woman should ever learn about a bachelor party is that the dinner was nice and you all enjoyed the string quartet.

 

[Eeezee]

There's absolutely no reason to bring it up to anyone. Why did you even ask this question? It's irrelevant to him having an affair

 

[meltdown75]

< agree with sully & M4H on the cock-punching.

You wouldn't have been invited to the bachelor party if they didn't think you were cool enough to keep stuff that is generally assumed to happen there under wraps. Do everyone in the situation a favour and live up to expectations.

 

[skrilla]

Originally posted by: Injury

Originally posted by: PClark99
Unless the bride is your sister, then shut your yap and let it lie.

:thumbsup:

A relationship where one person thinks that sort of thing is acceptable will work itself out anyway.

QFT.

And in this case it pretty much did, when he had an affair. She should have left him then. Telling the secret about the bachelor party would just add insult to injury.

 

[dafatha00]

Good GOD. Learn to write.

 

[davestar]

Originally posted by: BMdoobieW

Originally posted by: akasha
dont insult the writing when it took YOU 3 times to READ. I didnt want to post a LONG LONG LONG unnecessary explanation. So, if you truly need a translation, here you go...

ASSUME that you(the reader) are buddies with the groom, "as time goes on"...like years down the road (do you need more of an explanation here?) YOU and your significant other (not mentioning a wife because I dont know what the preference is for the one READING this) grow to be close "COUPLE" Friends during the years.
Better?

Both your original post and your clarification above are hard to understand. For one thing, what does you and your S.O. being close have to do with anything???

agreed. posts has heniously written as the OP's should be ignored. taking his post seriously condones 3rd grade-level writing.

 

[w00t]

No, It was a bachelors party it doesn't count

 

[Compton]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Compton
Its not ok. Anyone who thinks its ok should not be getting married.

oh so wrong you are. This is the last chance to get that last taste of fresh. After this there is no chance of experiencing that.

Bachelors parties are about getting your boy laid for the last time. That's just the way it is.

-edit- that's what the bachelor party is all about - getting your boy laid by some fresh. it's the last big woo-ha of singledom.

You should get that out of your system before you think about getting married.