Banned for Bad Tipping

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alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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I'm partially on your side in this argument. I think good service should always get a tip, but at the same time we can't lose sight of what a tip is. A server's need for tips to get their pay level to a livable level is not an automatic obligation for a patron to provide it. Inherent in the concept of a tip is the chance that some ass will leave you hanging every now and then. That sucks, but it's part of the job.

It's when people start thinking that their need = my obligation that I take exception. It simply isn't true. Servers just want to take the chance out of what is essentially a gamble on their part. They are gambling that customers will appreciate their service enough to compensate them appropriately, and by and large, customers do. Tipping is so prevalent and generous that restaurants are able to justify paying less than minimum wage. A good waiter can potentially make a great deal of money in a single day on tips alone, or they could have a bad day and make very little. That's not good enough for many waiters though. They want their "tips" to be guaranteed, rather than subject to the whims of the fickle populace.

Something about that doesn't sit right with me.

well in all fairness it's expected that for serving you they are getting X amount/percentage for doing so...just for the act of service. For food that's 15%. This means for most of the middle and lower class that the server brought them their food, got a set of refills along the way, and had their check to them within 15mins of them completing the meal. At this level it's best to ask your server for those refills and when your are ready for your check, expect to wait 5mins or so at times for them to come back.

Just because the server got a plate or two swapped at the table, or the food is slightly cold or over done, etc is not their fault...should still warrant the 15% tip. Food prep should be something one brings up to the management and it's customary to get comp'd a bit at the higher end of the lower eating places. At pure bargain bin restaurants you probably have over 25% of the patrons trying to get something for nothing.
 

lupi

Lifer
Apr 8, 2001
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can someone show me the requirement to work a job that pays below minimum wage.
 

ScottyB

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Jan 28, 2002
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well in all fairness it's expected that for serving you they are getting X amount/percentage for doing so...just for the act of service. For food that's 15%. This means for most of the middle and lower class that the server brought them their food, got a set of refills along the way, and had their check to them within 15mins of them completing the meal. At this level it's best to ask your server for those refills and when your are ready for your check, expect to wait 5mins or so at times for them to come back.

Just because the server got a plate or two swapped at the table, or the food is slightly cold or over done, etc is not their fault...should still warrant the 15% tip. Food prep should be something one brings up to the management and it's customary to get comp'd a bit at the higher end of the lower eating places. At pure bargain bin restaurants you probably have over 25% of the patrons trying to get something for nothing.

Yes it is.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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can someone show me the requirement to work a job that pays below minimum wage.

exactly - and people still do the job because they can come out well on top... but complain when they don't. It's like gambling then complaining that you lost.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Yes it is.

not the servers fault at all especially if you are eating at cattle feeding restaurants. That's an issue with the cook. Expect at a TGIF's on a Saturday night during rush that you food is not going to be brought to your table as fresh off the grill as a Morton's Steak house.

You can't be that dense, are you just trolling here?
 

RoloMather

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Sep 23, 2008
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Why am I not surprised that GA and TTboy refuse to tip?

BTW, this black lady should be banned from all the restaurants in the area.

That would be funny.
 

Daverino

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Mar 15, 2007
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Repeat customers who don't tip should be banned. The argument that you are not tipping because of bad service doesn't hold up if you frequent the place regularly. If you were disappointed in the service that often, you would not return.

In my estimation, she's a bad tipper and using an excuse to get out of tipping even 10 or 15%. If she has gotten such a reputation that none of the servers are willing to wait on her, what are you going to do? If you just blanket refuse to serve her, then you are going to get a real bias complaint. I think the owners did the only they could here.
 

OulOat

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Aug 8, 2002
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So what you are saying is that it is disadvantageous for the company to fire you because of a few program faults here and there, and that customers have no real recourse when that happens, and that this is somehow better than a system where the customer doesn't have to pay as much if the quality of service is not as high, and a company could still fire someone for repeated incompetence?

I don't understand how anyone could think the second scenario below is better. Perhaps because they don't like doing rudimentary multiplication?

Current System
good service = Customer spends price of meal + 18%
bad service = Customer spends price of meal + 0%

No-Tip System
good service = Customer spends price of meal + 18%
bad service = Customer spends price of meal + 18%

In China and Japan
Good Service = Customer pays the bill, no tip (I had them chase me down because they thought I accidentally left my money)
Bad Service = Customer doesn't pay

BTW, what we consider normal service in the US would not fly in Asia. Something as simple as a teacup (small things) left unfilled indicates server incompetence and warrants an apology from the manager. Hell, even at McDs you have workers who takes your trash away.
 

Vegitto

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May 3, 2005
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You Americans and your tipping.. This is way outta line, if a restaurant withheld service from anyone for not paying more than the cost of the food and drinks is, they'd be closed and no-one would think twice about it..
 

shortylickens

No Lifer
Jul 15, 2003
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You Americans and your tipping.. This is way outta line, if a restaurant withheld service from anyone for not paying more than the cost of the food and drinks is, they'd be closed and no-one would think twice about it..

As a general rule I think America is superior in every way, with the exception of the tipping issue. In most of the rest of the world this is not even known, much less practiced.
We need to get over ourselves and our sense of entitlement. Its one of the many things holding us down.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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As a general rule I think America is superior in every way, with the exception of the tipping issue. In most of the rest of the world this is not even known, much less practiced.
We need to get over ourselves and our sense of entitlement. Its one of the many things holding us down.

Tipping exists outside the US.
 

ghost recon88

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Oct 2, 2005
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No way should tipping be mandatory. If it were, they should just jack up the initial price of the dish and call it good. Tipping is only optional (although I do tip at every sit down restaurant) and the amount is only based on the quality of service, nothing else. These people are no different than any other people that serve you who don't get tipped (i.e. getting an oil change, car salesman, insurance company agent, etc...).
 

nick1985

Lifer
Dec 29, 2002
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These people are no different than any other people that serve you who don't get tipped (i.e. getting an oil change, car salesman, insurance company agent, etc...).

...except servers make ~ half of minimum wage, whereas those jobs make above minimum wage. But you're right, other than that massive glaring difference, they are no different.
 

JD50

Lifer
Sep 4, 2005
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No way should tipping be mandatory. If it were, they should just jack up the initial price of the dish and call it good. Tipping is only optional (although I do tip at every sit down restaurant) and the amount is only based on the quality of service, nothing else. These people are no different than any other people that serve you who don't get tipped (i.e. getting an oil change, car salesman, insurance company agent, etc...).

You're definitely the first person to make that point, and it certainly hasn't been debunked multiple times in this thread. I can tell that you're the type of guy that reads a thread over very carefully before he posts.
 

ModerateRepZero

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Jan 12, 2006
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tipping is only optional in the US because the vast majority of restaurants would lose business once tipping/gratuity is incorporated into the prices, and because servers/waitstaff don't get paid minimum wage by the restaurant.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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No way should tipping be mandatory. If it were, they should just jack up the initial price of the dish and call it good. Tipping is only optional (although I do tip at every sit down restaurant) and the amount is only based on the quality of service, nothing else. These people are no different than any other people that serve you who don't get tipped (i.e. getting an oil change, car salesman, insurance company agent, etc...).

wait, wat?

 

zerocool84

Lifer
Nov 11, 2004
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Agree. Zerocool and many others need to get jobs and move out of their parents house. Or work at a restaurant. They'd realize that there's plenty of people hustling, providing great service to earn their tip. But for some reason, he and others think that minimum wage is a livable wage and that's all they deserve or it's very easy to find a better/higher paying job.

Crap, I've been in a diner where I've gotten great service and left a $5 tip for a $10 meal.

Thankfully, based on the poll in the article, only 1% of the population think like him.

Yes and if they do a good job I'd tip them. You're not getting the point I and others have said. Do and good job and you get a tip. Do a bad job and get no tip. I don't see how you're missing the point. Maybe you're the one that needs to get out and get some fresh air.
 

bunnyfubbles

Lifer
Sep 3, 2001
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Out of all the restaurants patrons and they recognize her, I can only assume she must have done something to make herself stand out.

its not hard when its a repeat customer. The staff will easily recognize someone like her if she never tips and/or gives them a hard time with orders.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Yes and if they do a good job I'd tip them. You're not getting the point I and others have said. Do and good job and you get a tip. Do a bad job and get no tip. I don't see how you're missing the point. Maybe you're the one that needs to get out and get some fresh air.

The problem is (and maybe it's just because I choose where I eat out accordingly) most here set a false expectation on what the level of service should be. I don't know if they are trying to justify to themselves why to not leave a tip, pretend they are eating at a service level above their means or some other kind of mental game.

It's been rare enough that I have had bad service that I don't really need to even consider it a normal option to stiff a server or go below 15%. I tend to drink a lot with my meals and when they take my drink order I mention if they can just keep bringing them as they pass and they usually will. If I didn't mention it I am sure I'd be left high and dry often at a place like Fridays where the server is serving on the average needs of patrons and also working against the unruly.
 

MustangSVT

Lifer
Oct 7, 2000
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Tip is a tip, not mandatory.

and they charged her 18% with a party of less then 6?

I dont think we are getting the full story here.
 
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