Thanks for the vote of confidence, coming from you, it means a lot. I've been thinking about how to relid a CPU in a way that would result in precisely the right pressure being exerted on the die, but there are a few problems :
Bulk modulus of the original IHS sealant, its surface area, the original gap between die and IHS, and the amount of pressure applied by the CPU retention and HSF mechanisms need to be known in order to calculate how much load was borne by the sealant. The bulk modulus of any replacement sealant must be known, and an application method devised which results in an applied surface area that falls within certain parameters.
Given all the variables, my new hypothesis is that Intel designed their non-soldered CPUs so that the sealant bears all the load, and while the pressure of installing the CPU and HSF might decrease the die to IHS gap, it never gets to the point of being load bearing.