Originally posted by: Tweak155
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
So if one doesn't like a gift given by their SO,how does one go about expressing that?
People who lie and express pleasure over gifts they don't like and that don't suit them
tend to spend the rest of their married lives receiving the same sort of gifts,year after year.
Also did this woman say."please honey, I'd love a laptop for my Xmas gift" or was it just something she needed to have?
Our house "needs" a deep freezer, I'd be less than thrilled to receive it as an Xmas or birthday gift.
I don't even know where to start with this.
It is one thing to not like the GIFT (which sometimes you can't help), it is another to not like it due to color that doesn't change functionality.
I'll admit, someone asked an interesting question saying what if I received pink power tools? I would be shocked and confused and probably have a strange reaction. I can be honest about that. But I WOULD NOT tell them I don't want it. No way on earth. If it wasn't what I needed (say a drill rather than a saw), I'm not sure what I would say. But in this situation, the laptop is functionally the same regardless of color.
Also, pink is an outrageous color or out of norm. It stands out. The laptop is probably gray or some other neutral color which may lack "pizaz (sp?)" but wouldn't be distracting so I don't know if the pink power tools is a valid argument. Nonetheless, those are my thoughts.
That being said, you should always try to like the thought rather than the gift. Trying doesn't mean perfection as I stated above, but appreciate the person, not your color preferences.
This thread is full of fail and win.