Bride-to-Be Rachelle Friedman Is Paralyzed After a Bachelorette Party Joke Went Wrong

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Nebor

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That's terrible. And rough for her fiance. I wouldn't blame him for walking away.
 

AreaCode707

Lifer
Sep 21, 2001
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For those of you saying you'd rather be dead than quad, you should know that we have a couple quads on this board. One of the fellows I've corresponded with since he was in high school and he's married now. Seems happier than most of us on the boards. You are more than the sum total of your physical body.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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I could live with being paralyzed waist down. Neck down fuck no.
 

paperfist

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Nov 30, 2000
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it all depends on the pool

In a shallow end, the top of the water could be anywhere from 6 inches to 1.5 ft below where your feet are on the ledge of the pool. Some out of the ordinary pools, even more.

If you are pushed from a high center of gravity (under your neck), you would easily topple down and go close to head first into a shallow end.

Shallow end I guess could be anything from 3ft down to under a ft of water if it is a "baby pool"

I suspect she fell awkwardly and maybe turned the fall into a dive either willingly or unwillingly

Still the water would retard the speed at which you hit the bottom, no? And isn't it a natural instinct to use your hand to protect your head? Without all the 'facts' it does seem odd, freak or not.
 

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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Still the water would retard the speed at which you hit the bottom, no? And isn't it a natural instinct to use your hand to protect your head? Without all the 'facts' it does seem odd, freak or not.

Umm, if you fall forward, your natural instinct is to put your hands out, not protect your head.

If you fall backwards, your normal instincts would be to crouch to fall on your butt or reach your hands backwards.

If you're pushed without forewarning, all bets are off -- but I guarantee you that your first reaction wouldn't be to cover your head.
 

Eli

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Oct 9, 1999
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For those of you saying you'd rather be dead than quad, you should know that we have a couple quads on this board. One of the fellows I've corresponded with since he was in high school and he's married now. Seems happier than most of us on the boards. You are more than the sum total of your physical body.

Hindsight is everything. Like I said, I can imagine being thankful to be alive in that situation. However, from where I sit now, the idea is very depressing. Sure, you could make a life. But I wouldn't be able to do anything I love anymore.

But you're right. I would probably find joy in just the simple thing of watching the world "progress". That's what I hate most about the thought of dying, not getting to see what happens. So it would be worth it in that regard.

But man.. Yeah, just unfathomable.
 

zerocool84

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Nov 11, 2004
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Hindsight is everything. Like I said, I can imagine being thankful to be alive in that situation. However, from where I sit now, the idea is very depressing. Sure, you could make a life. But I wouldn't be able to do anything I love anymore.

But you're right. I would probably find joy in just the simple thing of watching the world "progress". That's what I hate most about the thought of dying, not getting to see what happens. So it would be worth it in that regard.

But man.. Yeah, just unfathomable.

At a place I used to work at, one of my bosses became paralyzed after an ATV accident. He used to do rock climbing, sky diving, all that extreme sports stuff and I'm sure it was really hard on him. I don't know how I'd live if I became paralyzed.
 

destrekor

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Nov 18, 2005
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For those of you saying you'd rather be dead than quad, you should know that we have a couple quads on this board. One of the fellows I've corresponded with since he was in high school and he's married now. Seems happier than most of us on the boards. You are more than the sum total of your physical body.

I have corresponded with some such individuals, and when I make my own personal statements, I make no assumptions regarding their daily motions through life. What someone does with their life, how their view things, and what they think of their life - those are all personal matters. I profoundly respect someone who can make an honest living no matter what shape they are in, but that doesn't mean I would see things that way if I had been forced into that situation.

If I ever do find myself in that position, and hopefully if I ever do I have a decent amount of money to throw around, I will invest heavily into stem cell research, because I'm going to be demanding that I get massive quantities of the dead fetus goo as soon as clinical testing is approved. Time to make those dead nerves anything but dead.
 

destrekor

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Nov 18, 2005
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Umm, if you fall forward, your natural instinct is to put your hands out, not protect your head.

If you fall backwards, your normal instincts would be to crouch to fall on your butt or reach your hands backwards.

If you're pushed without forewarning, all bets are off -- but I guarantee you that your first reaction wouldn't be to cover your head.

Well, putting your hands out is sort of a way of protecting the head - no hands to break the fall, your body might hit hard and the head could follow.
 

ed21x

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hur hur here is someone that doesn't know how much we don't know. or can't fix.

eh... i've been doing lab work on Mesenchymal Stem Cells, which can differentiate into pretty much anything related to the stromal lineage, which includes nerve cells, osteoblasts, cartilage, etc just by applying external factors such as surface topography, surface chemistry, biomaterial scaffold stiffness... these stem cells are derived from dental pulp.

Best to do research before posting
 
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ichy

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okay, what i meant is that she's paraplegic, not quadraplegic.

C6 fracture means that she's quadriplegic, but quadriplegia doesn't necessarily mean you can't move your arms, just that you're movement is impaired.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quadriplegia

It is caused by damage to the brain or the spinal cord at a high level C1 - C7 - in particular, spinal cord injuries secondary to an injury to the cervical spine. The injury, which is known as a lesion, causes victims to lose partial or total function of all four limbs, meaning the arms and the legs. Tetraplegia is defined in many ways; C1-C4 usually affects arm movement more so than a C5-C7 injury; however, all quadriplegics have or have had some kind of finger dysfunction. So, it is not uncommon to have a quadriplegic with fully functional arms and only have their fingers that don't work.
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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"I can't even get a lift to get to the second floor of my house," said Friedman. Her catheter supplies cost around $2,000 per month."

I feel so sad for people who get a serious illness in America. where I live, those kinds of expenses are all paid for by the government, plus the serious accident victim would get a lump sum payout from the government of several hundreds of thousands of dollars to help pay for rehabilitation costs and modifications in their home etc.

how about telling us where you live?


doubt it.
 
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