I work with a bunch of wasp-y people and notice the same thing about their cuisine. They talk about their family get togethers and I once heard a lady describe a dish she made for her family: a "boiled dinner". All it is is a chunk of pot roast, or corned beef or some similar meat boiled together with vegetables until soggy. No spices, no aromatics, no nothing. I kept waiting for her to continue on with the recipe, mention additional ingredients but nothing else. She talked it up like it deserved to be on a 5 star hotel menu. Just boiled meat and veggies, mainly root veggies. And they throw away the water. What could have been the beginning of a nice soup... Some people have no food taste. Im sure it tasted acceptable but it sounds bland and boring as shit.
At my office, we also have a good amount of foreigners, Indians, Chinese etc... and sometimes they bring in "ethnic" food to share in the cafeteria. A plate of donuts or a platter of mac and cheese and its gone in 30 minutes. Something foreign and it gets ignored by the majority and left to spoil. I always help myself to great food and make sure to put it in the fridge so I can have some more the next day. As well as thank the person who brought it in. It must be such a let down to bring something in to share and then have nobody touch it. I want them to know at least somebody enjoyed it
I find the same around here, a lot of people dont like spice for some reason i dont understand. Im as white as a tic tac but very much enjoy spicy ethnic foods, always have, my main issue is getting the restaurants to make it spicy enough as to many foods have been americanized into flavorlessness.
I remember last summer we had a potluck lunch at work, small office, maybe 25-30 people. I brought in some chicken wings, they were spicy but not over the top, they all got eaten, i find even people who dont like spice will still eat spicy chicken wings for some odd reason. One of the Customer service reps brought in some butter chicken and home made roti and nann, it was some of the best i had ever eaten. It was way way spicy but more than that it was very aromatic and you could taste alot of flavors at work, She said she mostly used her families garam masala spice to flavor it, the recipe for this spice had been in her family for hundreds of years. It was so good i spent 2 hours in the lunch room with her eating it, we finished it almost just between the two of us because no one else would touch it, probably 6-8 portions we polished off between the two of us. Everyone else came in ripped off a piece of nann, tried the sauce, made a weird face, and grabbed some other food and left, they all wanted to try it because it smelled so good but other than me and her no one seemed able to stomach it. Seemed so weird to me as it was by far the best butter chicken i have had in my life.