i talked to them on this. It wasn't a confirmed address. It was a credit card stop and reverse. from what it seems like, paypal didn't want to take the hit and investage so right off the bat they took money. I opened up a dispute, they are trying to contact dude. I sent him some PM's and emails.
It wasn't much PM exchanged. I listed item, he messages me " i'll take it, whats your paypal", i emailed him back with the paypal info and i sent the part. Guy had like 20 post counts but he made the account 3 years back.
Hopefully the dispute will work in my favor but i'm doubtful. I'll still use paypal to buy stuff, pending this situation i might not use paypal as a option. i've heard of personal google check out accounts.