Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Jeebus...
Ok... here is my philosophy on engagement rings: Don't spend $5k. The E-ring I got for my fiance was about $950. It was very pretty and she absolutely loves it. It had a 1/4 carat diamond on a white gold band with tuquoise inlays. (She loves turquoise)
Call me cheap if you want... But I believe that if your woman says yes and then complains about the ring you bought her (within reason... don't give her something you won at the state fair at the bb gun stand) then her priorities are way out of whack.
Help me out women... was it the ring that made you say yes or was it the man asking?
What's more, why would you want to start your lives together that deep in debt? Get her a nice, smaller ring... something that everyone will know is an engagement ring but won't leave you thousands of dollars in debt. You can always replace it with something better after you get your lives a little more established and money is less of a concern. For now, save the money you would have spent on a trinket and put that towards a new house.
Just my $.02
I completely agree with you. And for me, of course the ring had nothing to do with getting married. Hell, I didn't even get an 'engagement' ring until we had been married for almost 12 years (and the ring is beautiful and was a SMALL FRACTION of what he's proposing to pay.)
If a 5k engagement ring is really so important to the girl that she won't say yes, or she won't love him as much or she'll be embarrassed, then there are much more important issues in the relationship (that need to be worked out) than the ring.