Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
Originally posted by: seemingly random
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
Originally posted by: seemingly random
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
It's the up front intentions or commitment that matter. Entering into this planning on later court dates doesn't bode well for a romantic relationship.Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
What magical thing happens when two people buy a house backed by a marriage license vs. two people who aren't?
It's still a place to live. It's still two sentient beings with free will to do as they choose. It's still possibly two incomes with a disparity that have to be overcome in court later on.
Originally posted by: seemingly random
It's the up front intentions or commitment that matter. Entering into this planning on later court dates doesn't bode well for a romantic relationship.Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
What magical thing happens when two people buy a house backed by a marriage license vs. two people who aren't?
It's still a place to live. It's still two sentient beings with free will to do as they choose. It's still possibly two incomes with a disparity that have to be overcome in court later on.
Ok. I guess there are all sorts of relationships and whatever works for you is what you should do and be happy with. The things to consider in the posts here is pretty exhaustive and should give you plenty to think about.Originally posted by: ducci
Originally posted by: seemingly random
In a business arrangement, is one expected to care for a sick partner or house his mother?Originally posted by: vi edit
Originally posted by: seemingly random
What if she gets pregnant and wants to stay home?
What if she (or you) gets terribly sick or injured and can't work?
What if she (or you) wants to provide shelter for a family member?
Maybe a duplex should be considered.
And again...how is it different if they were married and these came up?
I'd be treating the purchase of the home as a "business arrangement" - not the entire relationship.
There would be a legal contract between the two of us - not entirely different than if we were married. It would just be tied directly to the ownership of the home and not our entire estates.
If you're asking those things for financial reasons - we can afford - though barely - the home on a single income. We're both educated professionals. She makes more than I do, actually. I have more savings, though - as I'm a year older and have less student loans.
The biggest issue would be if we broke up - but that's the whole point of why I am asking. Just because something inconvenient happens doesn't mean I'm going to flip a shit. We're still in a relationship, after all.
Originally posted by: sutahz
Is there some kind of 'pre-nup' but of course, w/o the nuptials?
Why must he marry her? marriage is just paying the gov't to say you are a couple. Loving and caring for someone is all that really matters.
Originally posted by: ducci
Neither of us mind signing documentation as if it were any business deal.