Cancer.. i have it

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mizzou

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Oh man I'm so sorry to hear that!!!!

I hope this doesn't sound ridiculous but we recently put our cat down because she had oral cancer, which for cats is EXTREMELY violent and rapid. She had a tumor underneath her tongue and eventually couldn't eat or drink anything, but everything else was fine. I cried so much when I found out.
 

sunzt

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Nov 27, 2003
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Sending positive healing intentions your way OP.

So is there a lesson learned here from this experience? Is it to get a MRI and CT scan after 4 weeks of pain and no solution? What should people be doing so that it doesn't remain undiagnosed for so long?
 

slag

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PhoKingGuy will probably respond to that, but try a zpack first. Many throat problems are related to infections or so I was told.
It can be hard and take time to go "up the chain" to get to the point to where you can get an MRI or CT scan. My insurance requires a referral which I had to ask my PCP for but you are probably already 2-3 weeks into the soreness by then. I mean, lets face it, you live with it for a week or two, then make a dr appointment for 4 days in the future, go to that, get a prescription, take it for a week to 10 days, it doesn't help, they want to run some tests which you get the results back from in 3-4 days, then get a referral and start the process over again. Also, MRI and CT scans aren't cheap and depending on where you live, there might be a week wait.
 

Vdubchaos

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Sorry to hear about this.

It makes me sick to my stomach that people that suffer have to go thru these endless roads of BS to get to the bottom of their pain.

We have been thru similar on our end, and I'm sure many American's experience the same.

:|

I wish you good luck
 

clamum

Lifer
Feb 13, 2003
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Wow, that sucks. Wishing you the best slag.

Ichinisan, good luck on your doc visit. Good that you're getting it taken care of.
 

Fingolfin269

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That sucks man. Not just that you have cancer but that you were basically looking for help months in advance of diagnosis. I know docs probably see the same thing over and over and over and it's human nature to make assumptions, but damn when you're the % that gets screwed by those assumptions...
 
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I wish you the very best. I hope it is a benign tumor that when removed is gone forever.

I read and hear about a lot of cases were doctors just do not listen to patients.
It is very frustrating.
 

MagnusTheBrewer

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I'm sorry to hear that. Your best defense is to educate yourself on your condition so, you can question and prod the doctors in an informed way. Take notes every time you speak with a doctor. If you're not sure about a particular term or reference, ask. Bring your notebook to every appointment. The sad reality of healthcare in the U.S. is that you must take control of your treatment at all levels. Remember, you're not only fighting for your health, your fighting a system that doesn't have your best interests at heart.
 

Geekbabe

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Slag,

Get yourself to the best cancer center you can, treatment for throat cancer can be rough but really effective. Don't delay in finding the best care you can get! I belong to a lung cancer survivor board that also has a head and neck cancer forum. People there will guide you and offer tips and support. www.inspire.com

Hugs to you!
 

slag

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Slag,

Get yourself to the best cancer center you can, treatment for throat cancer can be rough but really effective. Don't delay in finding the best care you can get! I belong to a lung cancer survivor board that also has a head and neck cancer forum. People there will guide you and offer tips and support. www.inspire.com

Hugs to you!

Thank you and thanks to all who have responded. It was cathartic to get it off my chest. Many kudos to my wife who has had to endure this with me. She's one in a million.
 

Number1

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Feb 24, 2006
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Slag,

Get yourself to the best cancer center you can, treatment for throat cancer can be rough but really effective. Don't delay in finding the best care you can get! I belong to a lung cancer survivor board that also has a head and neck cancer forum. People there will guide you and offer tips and support. www.inspire.com

Hugs to you!

Good advice Geekbabe. Decades ago my dentist discovered a precancerous tumor under my tongue. After seeing the doctor they wanted to wait and see. My new girlfriend at the time, a registered nurse, would have none of it and pushed for me to have it removed. It took 3 surgery to get it all out and i have been trouble free ever since. I married her.

Good luck Slag, we're praying for you and please be aggressive about your treatment, your life depends on it.
 

Ban Bot

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I hope the best for you and yours, slag.

As my own physician told me yesterday: sometimes you need to be bold and rude. Don't worry about offending someone--your health and well being are at stake.
 

Geekbabe

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Thank you and thanks to all who have responded. It was cathartic to get it off my chest. Many kudos to my wife who has had to endure this with me. She's one in a million.

I won't tell you lies, this is hard and tx will be harder but you will get through this! My friends over at Inspire have helped me on my darkest days. Trust me when I say that having friends who know exactly what you are going through is helpful in so many ways! It also makes it easier on your wife and others in your family.
 

slag

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Just a bit ago, my doctor called and told me to go ahead and get all dental work done I needed including cavities filled, root canals, etc.. the whole gamut. Also I'm supposed to get flouride trays and start using them when I shower.
 

BurnItDwn

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Oct 10, 1999
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Slag, please kick cancers ass. Cancer is an asshole! Sorry you have to deal with all this bullshit.
 

Exterous

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Jun 20, 2006
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Really sorry to hear that. I hope the treatment works out well for you and you make a full recovery.

All the best,
Ex
 

norseamd

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Last Halloween, I started having a sore throat. Lived with it for a few weeks, thinking it would eventually go away. It didn't. I finally went to the doctor and they prescribed me a zpack to get rid of any infection I might have.
It didn't work.
I made another appointment, and saw another family doctor at the clinic where I go because my doctor was out. He looked at my throat, didn't see anything, and prescribed me a zpack. I informed him we had already done this, and he followed up with giving me medicine for acid reflux. He was sure that was it.
I took it for 2 weeks with no change. It didn't work either.
So, I called back and asked for a referral to an ENT. By this time, its right after Thanksgiving. I got the referral, it took about 2 weeks to go in, and the ENT put this long scope down my throat and saw swelling that the other doctors couldn't see. He scheduled a biopsy which went off without a hitch about a week later, and it came back negative. No cancer. By this time, I'm having real problems swallowing and its bothering me all the time. I told him I wanted to get the lump removed and we scheduled a date, January 3rdish.
I had the surgery and felt a little better. Easier to swallow, but still sore and tender. Was told it would go away and for about a week, it did.
Then it came back with a vengeance. I was in a lot of pain and it was chalked up to the doctor having to remove some inflammation that had nerves bundled with it. It would heal I was told. It never did. January passes.. February comes and I have been referred to a neurologist to help identify why I'm having this "nerve" pain. He prescribes about 5 different medicines to try to help me. Each one take a week to 2 weeks to really get in my system and take effect. None of them work worth a crud. I feel like I'm having difficulty swallowing again and its affecting my sleep. "Normal" I'm told, as everything is healing. I don't buy it. I constantly press the ENT and neurologist for answers and was told these things take time.
In the meantime, I'm binging on ibuprofen, about 20 pills a day just to function, on a pain roller coaster. The neurologist doesn't want to prescribe any narcotics as nerve pain does not respond well to them. He puts me on amitriptaline, carbamezapine, and finally Lyrica to try to help me out. None of them work which is why I turned to the Ibuprofen.
Last week I told myself something had to change. I made another appointment with the ENT and with another neurologist. I told the ENT I wanted another CT scan and he wanted an MRI also. By this time, the pain is incredible. My headaches are all over my head, my neck feels like I've pulled every muscle in it as well, and my jaw is in intense pain. I'm sobbing daily due to the pain and can barely function. My left shoulder also feels like I've pulled it doing yard work. I can't sleep and haven't slept fully throughout the night in over two months. I'm a wreck.
The new neurologist explains I'm over medicating myself and am having rebound headaches and body aches. He cuts me cold turkey from the ibuprofen and puts me on 500 mg of naproxen sodium, 2x a day, and a muscle relaxer at night. I also get my MRI and CT scan.

Yesterday I'm told I have a tumor the size of a golf ball in the base of my tongue. I had a biopsy on it today where they go in and stick this huge needle in and pull out some cells. The doctors looked at it under a microscope and said it appears to be cancerous but they are sending it off to a lab to get it identified. I've known something was wrong for months and couldn't get anyone to help me with it. I'm so frustrated with this whole pain ordeal and not having anyone take me seriously when I've told everyone something wasn't right.

Anyway, had to get this off my chest. There are no cliff notes.

EDIT: I'm at the point where its extremely painful to eat. I'm eating soups and yogurt stuff now. I can't have burgers, chicken, anything rough that might be difficult to swallow. It's just too painful. My relief consists of sitting in the hot tub, taking hot showers, and sleeping with a heat pad on my shoulder/neck area.

Sorry and hope you can pull through this.

Our medical care in this country is so shot and is full of many problems yet I am sure many are not going to care about this cause "America" and shit. The massive monopolization of hospitals and clinics in this country plus the resulting attitudes and policies would be terrible on their own. Add in the massive pharmaceutical industry plus the heavy use of chemicals in daily life that cause many medical problems and you have what we have for medical care in America right now.
 

Perknose

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So sorry to hear of your ordeal, slag. Here's hoping for the best! :thumbsup:
 

Geekbabe

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Just a bit ago, my doctor called and told me to go ahead and get all dental work done I needed including cavities filled, root canals, etc.. the whole gamut. Also I'm supposed to get flouride trays and start using them when I shower.


Be sure to ask about a flu and pnemonia shots!
 

Geekbabe

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Just a bit ago, my doctor called and told me to go ahead and get all dental work done I needed including cavities filled, root canals, etc.. the whole gamut. Also I'm supposed to get flouride trays and start using them when I shower.

Sounds like radiation is going to be part of your tx plan.
 
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