I'm only 26 years old. got married when I was 22. no kids.
wife wants to get divorce, saying I'm not the type of guy she wants. I'm not blaming her. I'm not happy about it, but I think I"ll try to accept it and move on. In the end, it might be better for both of us. We are both passed the emotional phase of it, and are willing to admit we made a mistake in getting married in the first place. I just want to start over. :-(
I know a lot of you guys will advise me to get a lawyer to get all the facts straight. I'll do research on it, but want to see what suggestions ATOT gives me(I wont use it as legal advice, dont worry).
The issue right now is how to split our property. In terms of tangible property, do we have to get courts involved? If we both come to an agreement, can we just take care of it ourselves?
What about alimony? I think this will be the touchy subject for both for both of us. Is there a 'rule-of-thumb' as to how much I need to give her(if any)? She's throwing 20k at me. I dont know, to me, 20k is a lot of money, but then again, I've heard people end up needing to pay more when lawyers are involved
any suggestions on how to keep me sane for the next few months will be great.
It's going to be a rough ride.
wife wants to get divorce, saying I'm not the type of guy she wants. I'm not blaming her. I'm not happy about it, but I think I"ll try to accept it and move on. In the end, it might be better for both of us. We are both passed the emotional phase of it, and are willing to admit we made a mistake in getting married in the first place. I just want to start over. :-(
I know a lot of you guys will advise me to get a lawyer to get all the facts straight. I'll do research on it, but want to see what suggestions ATOT gives me(I wont use it as legal advice, dont worry).
The issue right now is how to split our property. In terms of tangible property, do we have to get courts involved? If we both come to an agreement, can we just take care of it ourselves?
What about alimony? I think this will be the touchy subject for both for both of us. Is there a 'rule-of-thumb' as to how much I need to give her(if any)? She's throwing 20k at me. I dont know, to me, 20k is a lot of money, but then again, I've heard people end up needing to pay more when lawyers are involved
any suggestions on how to keep me sane for the next few months will be great.
It's going to be a rough ride.