Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I was divorced in OK. The wife was asking for alimony. The judge asked her: "can you work?". She replied: "yes." The judge replied: "no alimony."Originally posted by: Semidevil
see, I dont even know. I guess I'll need to find a lawyer to get the state facts.
this is Oklahoma.
Originally posted by: Semidevil
Originally posted by: zeruty
Regardless of whether you want "lawyers involved" you will be making a huge mistake if you don't have a lawyer
Does she work? If so, how much does she make in comparison to you? 50%? Gimme a percent
she probably makes 60% of what I"m making.
Originally posted by: RichardE
Just don't fall into a depressing, you'll waste the best years of your life :beer:
I have heard the same thing before.Originally posted by: Ronstang
If you live in a small town you need to take a couple of days off of work and go see all the best divorce lawyers in town for a consultation. Once you do this she cannot use any of the ones you have seen....at least this is what I was told from a friend who went through a divorce. This may be bogus info but it is worth it to check it out.
Originally posted by: Ronstang
If you live in a small town you need to take a couple of days off of work and go see all the best divorce lawyers in town for a consultation. Once you do this she cannot use any of the ones you have seen....at least this is what I was told from a friend who went through a divorce. This may be bogus info but it is worth it to check it out.
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I was divorced in OK. The wife was asking for alimony. The judge asked her: "can you work?". She replied: "yes." The judge replied: "no alimony."Originally posted by: Semidevil
see, I dont even know. I guess I'll need to find a lawyer to get the state facts.
this is Oklahoma.
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I was divorced in OK. The wife was asking for alimony. The judge asked her: "can you work?". She replied: "yes." The judge replied: "no alimony."
Originally posted by: zeruty
Regardless of whether you want "lawyers involved" you will be making a huge mistake if you don't have a lawyer
Does she work? If so, how much does she make in comparison to you? 50%? Gimme a percent
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I have heard the same thing before.Originally posted by: Ronstang
If you live in a small town you need to take a couple of days off of work and go see all the best divorce lawyers in town for a consultation. Once you do this she cannot use any of the ones you have seen....at least this is what I was told from a friend who went through a divorce. This may be bogus info but it is worth it to check it out.
Originally posted by: lokiju
She told you she wants a divorce and then told you she wants you to give her $20k but you're not sure if you want a lawyer?
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I have heard the same thing before.Originally posted by: Ronstang
If you live in a small town you need to take a couple of days off of work and go see all the best divorce lawyers in town for a consultation. Once you do this she cannot use any of the ones you have seen....at least this is what I was told from a friend who went through a divorce. This may be bogus info but it is worth it to check it out.
LOL, the Sopranos used it as a story line in one of their episodes.
Originally posted by: dawp
I have a former GF who left about 6 yrs ago and got married. She called me up about 2 months ago and said she made a mistake when she left and wished we never split up. Why she got hitched if she still had feelings for me I'll never know.
Originally posted by: Wheezer
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
I was divorced in OK. The wife was asking for alimony. The judge asked her: "can you work?". She replied: "yes." The judge replied: "no alimony."Originally posted by: Semidevil
see, I dont even know. I guess I'll need to find a lawyer to get the state facts.
this is Oklahoma.
Damn...what a great judge.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: dawp
I have a former GF who left about 6 yrs ago and got married. She called me up about 2 months ago and said she made a mistake when she left and wished we never split up. Why she got hitched if she still had feelings for me I'll never know.
She may not have had those feelings then. They say you can't really know love until you lost it.
My money is on if you separated most couples, they'd be over each other pretty quickly. I think relationships have turned into needing roomies rather than being in love with someone.
Originally posted by: RKS
If you are trying to save money and think you can have an amicable divorce; you guys could split a lawyer. He could file all of the paperwork and "suggest" a fair division of property.