Can't Decide between girls!!!

[randomlinh]

yes, like everyone else said, you lucky SOB.

 

[snoogans]

Dude...you'll loose one when you go for the other. Unless she's psycho and wants to dick up your relationship...she'll probably either quit talking to you or whatever you 2 have now, it won't be the same.

You could always be a bastard and either go for both or keep your options open and if one doesn't work, u have the other.

I had the same deal about a year ago but I'm still with the girl I chose. The other one got pissed/jealous and we rarely talk now. So, there ya have it.

 

[~zonker~]

Go out with the one who dosen't always buy you stuff.
See if the the 'buyer' still wants to be your friend.
If she gets angry or frustrated with you, she didn't want to be your friend. She may have been trying to 'buy' you. Have some integrity....
A relationship based primarily friendship is always the best

 

[Isla]

I have to agree with ~zonker~.

The fact that my husband and I are really friends first has helped our relationship survive! There have been times when I didn't want to be married to him, but I still felt connected to him by friendship. Beleive me, every relationship has these ups and downs.

Romance can be fleeting... friendship is much more sturdy. Go for the one you can be friends with.

 

[Chooie]

Hmm, friends with benefits, but no real commitments... go for it

 

[Isla]

Hey, my husband and I are friends with benefits AND real committments...

That IS what makes it good!

 

[Barus10]

yeah, i am not the kinda guy that wants to hurt anyone, so i'm pretty much screwed....

 

[XL]

go for both

 

[Nutcase99]

Take em both! hehe Naa I'm just playing. Well you just take the one that you think you will be happier with and no sex isn't everything

 

[Barus10]

haha..what are you talkin about?? sex is everything!!! j/k, but the thing is..i don't know which one i will be happier w/

 

[Chachi2K]

Dude,
I've been reading what you and everyone else has been saying, and well I'm disappointed in you. Juggling around two girls is a tuffy but try four. They live about 40 miles apart from eachother. No one said that you can't Date them both. And when you find out which one makes you happier stick to just that one. But untill then just sit back relax and enjoy it while you're still in your prime.

hope i helped

 

[Sephiroth_IX]

It's this simple, just pick one, and then later on you can have the other. Say, "I told myself not to call you after this long, but I missed you too much."

Cha CHING, works every time

 

[Isla]

Seph, you are an evil genius!

LOL!

 

[EZD]

You should hear my perdicament... I am 19 and I have a 16 year old, and a 22 year old chasing after me... I am just playing it cool at the moment. It's kinda weird having girls persue me.. It's never happened before.

 

[Chooie]

Woah, Isla is a black dude!

 

[Isla]

EZD

Go for the 22 year old!

Jail bait is not good..... She will just have to wait until she is legal!

 

[allan120]

From personal experience, I'd have to say go for both and live it up. You're only young once, and you're not married. I was in your shoes and alternated between the two for a whole summer. Then I was off to school on the east coast, a happy, happy, happy man. Then I got a gf on this coast.

It's a wonderful opportunity, don't waste it.

 

[Isla]

Chooie

Isla is A BIG black dude!

and loving every minute of it, strangely....

I feel good... and I knew that I would...

 

[Chachi2K]

I think ISLA is a chick not some big black diznude

 

[Barus10]

seph....that is the best advice i've ever heard!!! maybe i will do that, but that goes against everything i stand for.... oh, and chachi..good advice too, but dating to me is the same as being "hooked up"

 

[AngelOfDeath]

Never cheat on a matter like this. Choose only one. Try imagine if it was you who thought you had your gf by yourself and then somehow discovered that your gf had another bf. Hmmm, don't think you would be too happy about it...do you???

AoD

 

[brassmonkey7]

get them both......at the same time

 

[brassmonkey7]

get them both......at the same time

 

[geno]

Which one does more for you (relationship wise)? Which one could you see yourself with for a long time?

 

[4824guy]

Try to get to know them both alittle longer, see which one you feel better about and which one still appeals to you more, then got for it.