Religious people have no qualms about insulting others for their beliefs or non-beliefs IMEXP. If an insult makes you upset or insecure, maybe you should evaluate your faith.
It's my choice to wear a colored mohawk, you don't think people are going to scrutinize it?
It's my choice to pick my nose, scratch my ass, or adjust myself in public, do you think others won't snicker or insult me?
You bring up judging people according to their personality, interesting. Religious minded individuals personalities can be closely tied to their belief system, that's why people often refer to it as brainwashing.
Bottom line is, can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.