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[Jugernot]

I'm going to take some time off and evaluate the situation.

Thanks all.

 

[Soybomb]

Why? Whats wrong with sex between consenting adults.......

 

[amb#cog]

Dude she is seducing you!!! :Q































Enjoy it.

 

[Emulex]

dude if the sex isn't GREAT, for both parties, the relationship will go south.

1. Never marry your first (...). You need to check out the various goods. you'll never be satisfied if you've only had one flavour of pie

2. If sex isnt out of this world for a long time, its gonna be a bust. That goes for both parties.

3. Always live with a female for at least a year before marrying, you'll find out if you can stand each other in such close proximity after about that long.

Sorry if its a sin, but take any advice you can get dude, the 50/50 divorce rate is dead real...

 

[Dan]

Jugernot: Been there, done that, so I speak from experience. I was 13 the first time I had sex; the woman was 28. After a few experiences with her I was "hooked." All through my teens and twenties the majority of my sexual encounters were with women who were much older than me.

If you do become physically involved you will have incredible, mind-blowing sex. (And believe me, there's nothing wrong with that. Don't expect much more though, especially in the long run. Maturity-wise, experientially, etc., there is just too big a gap -- hell, there's a chasm -- between 19 and 32.

 

[Pastore]

<< I was 13 the first time I had sex; the woman was 28 >>



wow...

 

[Jugernot]

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[Emulex]

pregnancy and std's are non issue today, use protection.

If your smart enought to be here, you know to wrap that thang up.

If its not a sin, then what is the issue?

 

[airfoil]

Drop your pants &amp; get to it, bud!

 

[amb#cog]

I was just tryin to be funny man.

I don't know enough to make a statement like that IMO.

 

[UG]

Presumably, she being 32, she's been married at least once so it would be post-marital sex. Problem solved.

 

[amb#cog]

ROTFLOL

Now that's thinking.

 

[Jugernot]

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[apoppin]

<<she was married 3 times to real F#@KS!! They treated her like crap and walked all over her. I know that sounds like a red light to most, but I am confident that I am quite different from her previous relationships.>>

You answered your own question. Yep, it's a red-light. And no - in her mind you won't turn out any differently than her previous 3 relationships. But - yes - the sex will probably be great (although what happens to you mind won't).

 

[Renob]

Dude run for the hills and get away from her!!! You need to stand back and take a look at this woman.
She is 32 and been married 3 times that alone say so much about here
and what it saying is not good.
Now on to the age diff 13 years if you were 39 and she 52 I would say no problem, but you are just a young buck with not very many life lessons.
Im 33 and besides their bodys I would not even think of going out with a 21 year to me there still children.
I hate to tell you this but I dont think anything good will come out of this sure there might be some great sex but I have afeeling you will end up very hurt and regrat the hole thing.
If you do go through with it I do with you good luck.

 

[Taz4158]

<< UG, well that is a sore spot for me because she was married 3 times to real F#@KS!! They treated her like crap and walked all over her. I know that sounds like a red light to most, but I am confident that I am quite different from her previous relationships. >>


That's HER story. You can be quite confident that if there were 3 failed marriages at that young an age, she should look in the mirror to see the problem. Not to mention emotional problems. What on earth does a 32 year old have in common with a 19 year old? This is not to demean you whatsoever but it's just not the way an emotionally happy adult views things.

 

[T4NNER]

Nothing good can come from this.

 

[Isla]

Nothing personal against your friend, but I am a 32 year old woman and the guys that catch my eye are about my age and older.

In the end, you have to make the decision... just remember that when you make love with another person, a spiritual/emotional/psychological alchemy takes place... on one hand, this is a wonderful thing, but on the other hand you become more involved with her on every level, like it or not.

If you do, please wear a condom. The one possible consequence that you must avoid is baby-making. I wouldn't leave that responsibility up to her.

Best Wishes!