College students who are still single

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

 

[blackangst1]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: blackangst1
IMHO at this point in your life you shouldnt be looking for a serious relationship. You need to be getting laid as much as possible with the least amount of money. This may sound shallow but you will develop valuable skills when it finally comes time to commit.

Youre too freakin young to be in a relationship.

Keep in mind, his post is coming from a bona-fide kiddie. He should know what is important for you. Follow his advice! No one should be in a long term relationship if some punk with anger issues like blackangst cannot find someone! :thumbsup:

It is actually pretty funny. The fools with that attitude in college are the same ones all alone the following years! Yeah, don't use the 1000s of people surrounding you in college to find one right for you. Wait until you are working for a living and exposed to only a handful.

WTF lol I graduated college almost 20 years ago and am married lol

 

[bignateyk]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


And your comment "Believe it or not, women dont like scrawny geeks who wear cargo pants. " did not imply you were doing it for your own self confidence. Additionally, it is not true. There is nothing wrong with "geeks" in "cargo pants." That is all superficial garbage.

I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense. I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions.

Additionally, having a good fashion sense will help you in plenty of other areas of your life, especially in business environments. It just opens doors that wouldnt have been there. Obviously not ideal, but thats life.

Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

 

[daniel1113]

I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: daniel1113
I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend.

another loser response. you will rationalize forever and ever why you have no girls in your life.

 

[daniel1113]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: daniel1113
I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend.

another loser response. you will rationalize forever and ever why you have no girls in your life.

Where do you come up with this crap?

 

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

I never said you don't need physical attraction. His statement that you could only find 200 lb women if you don't spend money on expensive clothing or work out extensively was bogus and therefore I labelled it as preposterous.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: daniel1113

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: daniel1113
I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend.

another loser response. you will rationalize forever and ever why you have no girls in your life.

Where do you come up with this crap?

please tell me how I'm wrong.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

I never said you don't need physical attraction. His statement that you could only find 200 lb women if you don't spend money on expensive clothing or work out extensively was bogus and therefore I labelled it as preposterous.

I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense

that is what he said I think you misinterpreted that. He would not date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense because he wouldn't have any attraction to her.

 

[daniel1113]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
please tell me how I'm wrong.

In the words of every Jerry Springer guest, "You don't know me. You don't know my life."

Since when does being single equate to a life without women?

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: daniel1113

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
please tell me how I'm wrong.

In the words of every Jerry Springer guest, "You don't know me. You don't know my life."

Since when does being single equate to a life without women?

thats exxactly what " I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend." implies. That you are single and in your mind you put work ahead of having a social life. If you meant something else then say what you meant and stop being so cryptic.

 

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


And your comment "Believe it or not, women dont like scrawny geeks who wear cargo pants. " did not imply you were doing it for your own self confidence. Additionally, it is not true. There is nothing wrong with "geeks" in "cargo pants." That is all superficial garbage.

I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense. I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions.

Additionally, having a good fashion sense will help you in plenty of other areas of your life, especially in business environments. It just opens doors that wouldnt have been there. Obviously not ideal, but thats life.

Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks.

I think your problem wasn't your dressing or muscle tone... I think it was your intelligence.

There is a big difference between being "out of shape and dressing like a hobo" and being a "geek who wears cargo pants" like you claimed. I said there was nothing wrong with dressing in khakis/jeans and regular shirts. I said it was unnecessary to buy expensive clothes and to work out to gain "40 pounds of muscle." Then you respond by saying that you wouldn't be able to find women being out of shape and dressing like a hobo........... I think we found your problem.

 

[daniel1113]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
thats exxactly what " I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend." implies. That you are single and in your mind you put work ahead of having a social life. If you meant something else then say what you meant and stop being so cryptic.

I just went back through the thread and read your other useless comments. I don't feed trolls, sorry.

 

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

I never said you don't need physical attraction. His statement that you could only find 200 lb women if you don't spend money on expensive clothing or work out extensively was bogus and therefore I labelled it as preposterous.

I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense

that is what he said I think you misinterpreted that. He would not date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense because he wouldn't have any attraction to her.

The sentence was not given alone. It needs to be taken in the context.

"I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense."

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: daniel1113

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
thats exxactly what " I quite enjoy being single, thank you. Quite frankly, I'd rather work than spend time "mingling" with people in hopes of finding a girlfriend." implies. That you are single and in your mind you put work ahead of having a social life. If you meant something else then say what you meant and stop being so cryptic.

I just went back through the thread and read your other useless comments. I don't feed trolls, sorry.

:roll:

 

[bignateyk]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

I never said you don't need physical attraction. His statement that you could only find 200 lb women if you don't spend money on expensive clothing or work out extensively was bogus and therefore I labelled it as preposterous.

I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense

that is what he said I think you misinterpreted that. He would not date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense because he wouldn't have any attraction to her.

The sentence was not given alone. It needs to be taken in the context.

"I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense."

ROFL. Talk about taking it out of context. Try re-inserting the last two sentences of that paragraph that re-affirm exactly what my point was, and what icebergslim said.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9



The sentence was not given alone. It needs to be taken in the context.

"I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense."

it still doesnt change the meaning....he's just saying he wouldnt date an obese and ugly woman because he would NOT be attracted to her and that doesnt mean he is superficial. holds the same meaning. I don't agree with the woman care about looks part I already said that.

 

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9


Yeah, except it isn't true. Maybe on tv shows and in movies it is true. None of my friends in highschool/college dressed with anything special and they/I had/have some pretty hot girlfriends. Sorry, but the only women that would look down on men wearing jeans/khakis are superficial fools. A majority of women care 1000x more about the guys' personalities than the fact that the guy might be wearing jeans. This is ESPECIALLY THE CASE IN COLLEGE, where most people are struggling for money.

Perpetuating false stereotypes isn't going to help anyone. It may make you feel better, but that's about it.

The 200 pound girl comment is so preposterous I cannot even bring myself to respond to it.

wtf fantasy land do you exist in? sseriously you are so off base its preposterous!

It is called reality. I had 2 long relationships before I was 19 and then I got married at 22 after being with a girl for 3 years that I met in college. She is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent, and I even got her into sci-fi : ). I could provide pictures if needed. I could also provide pictures of the girlfriends my good friends had throughout highschool/college. What is fantasy exactly?

If you want superficial people or follow the advice of someone who needs to buy clothes to feel special, you are following the wrong people.

no you are mis interpreting me. i agree that you can land a genuine perfect 10 looks & personality while being short, over weight not particularly wealthy or handsome. women will take personality. but only because a powerful personality and lots of charisma are still leading indicators of having high social status just as a flashy car and nice clothes are. However personality and charisma can be crafted for free but some people just dont have it.

your statement about not needing physical attraction is what i was calling preposterous

I never said you don't need physical attraction. His statement that you could only find 200 lb women if you don't spend money on expensive clothing or work out extensively was bogus and therefore I labelled it as preposterous.

I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense

that is what he said I think you misinterpreted that. He would not date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense because he wouldn't have any attraction to her.

The sentence was not given alone. It needs to be taken in the context.

"I never said there is anything wrong with geeks in cargo pants. I just implied that its not going to get you laid. As superficial as it may seem, almost all women DO care about fashion and looks whether they say so or not. Just because someone cares about looks doesnt mean they are superficial. I'm certainly not willing to date a 200lb girl with no fashion sense."

ROFL. Talk about taking it out of context. Try re-inserting the last two sentences of that paragraph that re-affirm exactly what my point was, and what icebergslim said.

Sorry, but the last 2 sentences don't change anything.

"I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions. "

This, with the first half, AGAIN implies that in order to attract women you need to buy expensive clothes and work out extensively. This is still incorrect.

Your followup to this confirmed my interpretation.

"OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks."

He confirms that his point was that women will not find you attractive if you wear cargo pants and therefore must go his route of expensive clothes and working out extensively.. otherwise, since most women are into fashion, they will not like you.

 

[LordMorpheus]

go get dumped a few times - it'll make you a well adjusted person.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Sorry, but the last 2 sentences don't change anything.

"I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions. "

This, with the first half, AGAIN implies that in order to attract women you need to buy expensive clothes and work out extensively. This is still incorrect.

Your followup to this confirmed my interpretation.

OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks.



There is a big difference between being "out of shape and dressing like a hobo" and being a "geek who wears cargo pants" like you claimed. I said there was nothing wrong with dressing in khakis/jeans and regular shirts. I said it was unnecessary to buy expensive clothes and to work out to gain "40 pounds of muscle." Then you respond by saying that you wouldn't be able to find women being out of shape and dressing like a hobo........... I think we found your problem.

I think I can summarize this easily.

Men place more importance on a womans appearance than woman place on a mans appearance.

To land a hot desirable women all you need is strong indicators of being a a high status male this is demonstrated through many qualities some of which include Looks(aka good genetics) , wealth, power, confidence, intelligence, personality and charisma

for example you can goto vegas and see some totally ugly nerdy chode introverts with trophy wives on there arms because he just got out of a new lambo. In this case he doesnt have any high status males indicators other than percieved wealth.

obviously the more indicators one possesses the more desirable they are. I.E. brad pitt has all of these characteristics and is arguably one of the most desireable men in the world and he landed one of the most desirable women in the wworld.

 

[shadow9d9]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Sorry, but the last 2 sentences don't change anything.

"I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions. "

This, with the first half, AGAIN implies that in order to attract women you need to buy expensive clothes and work out extensively. This is still incorrect.

Your followup to this confirmed my interpretation.

OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks.



There is a big difference between being "out of shape and dressing like a hobo" and being a "geek who wears cargo pants" like you claimed. I said there was nothing wrong with dressing in khakis/jeans and regular shirts. I said it was unnecessary to buy expensive clothes and to work out to gain "40 pounds of muscle." Then you respond by saying that you wouldn't be able to find women being out of shape and dressing like a hobo........... I think we found your problem.

I think I can summarize this easily.

Men place more importance on a womans appearance than woman place on a mans appearance.

To land a hot desirable women all you need is strong indicators of being a a high status male this is demonstrated through many qualities some of which include Looks(aka good genetics) , wealth, power, confidence, intelligence, personality and charisma

for example you can goto vegas and see some totally ugly nerdy chode introverts with trophy wives on there arms because he just got out of a new lambo. In this case he doesnt have any high status males indicators other than percieved wealth.

obviously the more indicators one possesses the more desirable they are. I.E. brad pitt has all of these characteristics and is arguably one of the most desireable men in the world and he landed one of the most desirable women in the wworld.

I don't like/understand the term high status...

As for: "Looks(aka good genetics) , wealth, power, confidence, intelligence, personality and charisma "

The wealth and power don't often apply to very young people, especially in college. Plus, you could get away with decent(average) looks pretty easily. Which leaves confidence/personality/charisma, which I think all can fall under the term personality.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Sorry, but the last 2 sentences don't change anything.

"I dont think thats superficial at all. There has to be SOME physical attraction in a relationship, in both directions. "

This, with the first half, AGAIN implies that in order to attract women you need to buy expensive clothes and work out extensively. This is still incorrect.

Your followup to this confirmed my interpretation.

OK fine, I give up, you win. Let yourself get out of shape, dress like a hobo, and find the one girl in the world who wants to be with you and doesnt care about your looks. At this point you can be sure you've found true love because you know for a fact she doesnt care one bit about your looks.



There is a big difference between being "out of shape and dressing like a hobo" and being a "geek who wears cargo pants" like you claimed. I said there was nothing wrong with dressing in khakis/jeans and regular shirts. I said it was unnecessary to buy expensive clothes and to work out to gain "40 pounds of muscle." Then you respond by saying that you wouldn't be able to find women being out of shape and dressing like a hobo........... I think we found your problem.

I think I can summarize this easily.

Men place more importance on a womans appearance than woman place on a mans appearance.

To land a hot desirable women all you need is strong indicators of being a a high status male this is demonstrated through many qualities some of which include Looks(aka good genetics) , wealth, power, confidence, intelligence, personality and charisma

for example you can goto vegas and see some totally ugly nerdy chode introverts with trophy wives on there arms because he just got out of a new lambo. In this case he doesnt have any high status males indicators other than percieved wealth.

obviously the more indicators one possesses the more desirable they are. I.E. brad pitt has all of these characteristics and is arguably one of the most desireable men in the world and he landed one of the most desirable women in the wworld.

I don't like/understand the term high status...

As for: "Looks(aka good genetics) , wealth, power, confidence, intelligence, personality and charisma "

The wealth and power don't often apply to very young people, especially in college. Plus, you could get away with decent(average) looks pretty easily. Which leaves confidence/personality/charisma, which I think all can fall under the term personality.

well whatever label you want to put on it but it does come down to percieved or real social status and it goes back to tribal times when the leader of the tribe would bang all the women in the village. its a hardwired social structure that evolved to best ensure the fittest offspring were the most likely to survive and keep the species in existence

it should also be noted that having an abundance of one indicator is often enough to make up for having none of any other and upgrading anyone indicator can effectively raise your status. For instance a shy average joe college kid can amplify his percieved status simply by upgrading his wardrobe and practicing being more confident. All of a sudden he will begin to stand out amongst his peers.

 

[TomKazansky]

In Before the Lock!

Seriously - all of you need to get a life. Instead of debating this stuff on an online forum, why not do something about it?

 

[bignateyk]

Originally posted by: TomKazansky
In Before the Lock!

Seriously - all of you need to get a life. Instead of debating this stuff on an online forum, why not do something about it?

because the three of us debating the issue arent the ones who need to do something about it.