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That's a weird thing to hope for, but I'll play along.Hopefully somebody you love will be violently killed this year, then you can come back and I'll tell you how insignificant they were to the world...since thats how you feel about everyone else. What a fatalistic attitude.
If someone I love was violently killed, my first step in grieving would be to place 100% of the blame on the criminal party involved. The blame isn't going to be on their parents or siblings, their teacher or counselor, their movies, music or video games, or our culture. Every single day, millions of people around the world have the same shitty families, the same poor support system, and the same taste in media; those people never murder anybody. The person killed was significant to me, and that would be all that mattered. I wouldn't give a second thought to what some internet jockey halfway across the country thought, because it truly doesn't matter.
So lets stop pretending that your main concern is the families. Your main concern is politicizing the event. And that's fine, because honestly, how does this event actually affect your life in any way but politically? Just don't be dishonest about your motives.
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