Consider never marrying...

[GuileVsGuile]

Im just curious how many dudes out there honestly considered livin it out solo...or at least for a pretty long time...

 

[her209]

You talking about straight guys right?

 

[GuileVsGuile]

Originally posted by: her209
You talking about straight guys right?

affirmative.

 

[MoPHo]

my girlfriend asked what i thought about marriage. rather than lie and not get her mad at me, i told her the truth. i told her i didn't really want to get married. she assumed i meant 'no, i just wanna have sex with every girl out there', which is true but i didnt mean it at the moment. her exact words were "i'm seriously contemplating our relationship".

 

[Sphexi]

I'm getting married this summer, I'm 24. That long enough?


Seriously though, for the past few years I've thought about being a father, having someone to come home to, not having to deal with the whole dating thing anymore. Used to be I thought my dad was a horrible parent, and I swore I'd be better than him someday, now I look back and realize he was actually pretty good at it, and I can't wait to have kids of my own to bounce on my knee and do all sorts of fun stuff with.

 

[GuileVsGuile]

i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

 

[MoPHo]

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

happiest and richest man...EVAR!!!!!

 

[sandmanwake]

Marriage is the worse concept anyone ever came up with.

 

[TWills]

Yes, I'm wandering if it's worth getting married. Sometimes I feel like it's not even worth my time to date...

 

[shilala]

I didn't get married until I was almost 30. :music: I screwed around and fell in love. :music:
As it turned out, the feeling was actually gas.

 

[GuileVsGuile]

i figure, if i get married, marriage problems are pretty much 100% unavoidable....i'll spend countless amounts of time and effort and money only to run into a divorce 10 years later (if that long). Then ill be so regretful, i'll have no choice but to kill her




...j/k


.....maybe

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
Im just curious how many dudes out there honestly considered livin it out solo...or at least for a pretty long time...

dudettes consider it too

 

[alm4rr]

Maybe around 32
but maybe not

 

[imported_KirbsAw]

I wouldnt want to be old and alone. But before i would get married I would make sure nothing good was ever going to happen in my life again

 

[GuileVsGuile]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
Im just curious how many dudes out there honestly considered livin it out solo...or at least for a pretty long time...

dudettes consider it too

i'm sry...kinda sexist of me...thanks for commenting

 

[imported_KirbsAw]

Another thing, people tend to get married too soon. You should know someone a long time and live with them before you get married so you know what you're getting into.

 

[Gurck]

Originally posted by: MoPHo

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

happiest and richest man...EVAR!!!!!

QFT

 

[sandmanwake]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
Im just curious how many dudes out there honestly considered livin it out solo...or at least for a pretty long time...

dudettes consider it too

I need to find me a dudette who's willing to just be my solo shag partner without having to go through this whole marriage crap. Really, what's the point if you not religious? You can say you'll love them and stay with them for the rest of your life, but then divorces wouldn't exist if those words were true would they? Not that I'm against divorces. What's the point of staying with someone if you're miserable?

 

[KarenMarie]

my brother is gonna br 50yrs old and has never been married, has no children. this was his choice, as he says he does not ever want to pay what he calls vaginamony.

he sees quite a few ladies though. He works when he wants, spends his money as he likes... he travels all over the country, most of the times on a whim... his townhouse (in $$$ neighborhood) was paid in cash, he has other property and will retire a very comfortable man in 5yrs.

if he ever gets the hankering for spending times with kids, he has plenty of neices and nephews.

 

[alm99]

Originally posted by: MoPHo

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

happiest and richest man...EVAR!!!!!

but you die in your 40s of a heart attack because you don't have a wife nagging you about your habits

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
Im just curious how many dudes out there honestly considered livin it out solo...or at least for a pretty long time...

dudettes consider it too

i'm sry...kinda sexist of me...thanks for commenting

no problemo - there are only about 10 females posting here i think.

 

[Tylanner]

I don't think I would think twice about marrying if it felt right..

 

[Gurck]

Originally posted by: alm99

Originally posted by: MoPHo

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

happiest and richest man...EVAR!!!!!

but you die in your 40s of a heart attack because you don't have a wife nagging you about your habits

That's a problem?

 

[flexy]

Originally posted by: GuileVsGuile
i wonder what happens to a man psycologically if he goes through life without a partner...or even more so...without a kid

he lives longer, doesnt get gray hair or loses it all together ?

 

[sandmanwake]

Originally posted by: Tylanner
I don't think I would think twice about marrying if it felt right..

Maybe more people would be happier in marriages if they did think twice instead of just jumping in because it felt right.