not long ago, i told myself (and friends and family) that i'd never get married. i wanted to "live it solo" -- be on my own, do my own thing, and no, i wasn't having sex with anyone at that time (religious reasons and personal preference). i made little comments to my friends that if i ever do get married, i'd be a 65-year-old maid -- the last one of my group of friends to ever get married, if at all.
well, when you meet the right one, your feelings really change. i'll tell you that. i'm happily married and i'm glad i made this choice. sure, you can want to live independently, and there are things that will still enable you to be on your own while having someone to come home to. love is a wonderful thing but you need to seek it out or it needs to find you. if you think marriage is a horrible concept, try it. if it didn't work out, then it was a bad match -- so try again. eventually, you'll be REALLY happy.