Counter strike- GREAT Game, one of the only games that will be on every box I ever own. I rem when I first started playing at Lan partys I got ROCKED, im talking, i won the "most killed" award everytime...
Just play, and play more...but see if you cant find a Gun Game mod, because you dont have to wait for the reload, and you can use all the guns. I would offer my clan server but we dont host it anymore, but GUN GAME and done play with the goofy wc3 mods or anything else, play regular maps on GUN GAME and you will improve. just give it time. the learning curve is pretty high, but once you get the hang of it, you will enjoy it even more!
feel free to add me to your friends list as well- Randum