Coworkers are harassing me about getting married

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zCypher

Diamond Member
Aug 18, 2002
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Is this a workplace or what? They are not entitled to incessantly badger you about personal matters. Make it clear that you will not stand for it.
 

Perknose

Forum Director & Omnipotent Overlord
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Oct 9, 1999
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I don't think I would have much trouble locking down someone that's 24-25 in a few years.
Locking down someone? Sweet Jesus, I hope for any woman's sake that you never get married.

Being childless from 43-70 would be absolutely terrible.
Well, then, by all means follow through with your plan to never get married. That'll ensure you avoid th . . . wait, what?
 
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Capt Caveman

Lifer
Jan 30, 2005
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I'm one of those guys that got way better looking and masculine with age.. still have my hair, top tier physique, good fashion sense, $, etc.. very dominant. I don't think I would have much trouble locking down someone that's 24-25 in a few years. I'm very humble but at the same time, I elevated myself to another league which is why I choose to stay single, and am not worried about the future. I have matured but at the same time kept a youthful personality due to my sister, which allows me to click with younger women.

As for having kids - my younger sister just left home for college at 18. I've seen what it did to my parents - they have nothing to do now. My dad had my sister when he was 39. If I had my only kids when I was 25ish, I would be empty handed by the time I was 43. Being childless from 43-70 would be absolutely terrible.

In a way, I was a father figure to my sister. I already have the experience of raising a child and guiding her through life, so I'm not terribly craving the experience of fatherhood. My personal belief is that a man's life shouldn't be centered around his wife or his children, but rather his dreams and ambitions, which is what I'm going for. I would much rather have a child when I'm 34-35 with a wife 5-7 years younger, and have more kids when I'm 40+ so that when I'm old, I have people still around me. Also, I physically feel like I'm 21 still. Didn't drink or do drugs, just kept a meticulous diet my entire 20's and exercised religiously. So most people who think 30 is old, that doesn't apply to me..

If it weren't for my sister being born and staying with my parents this late, they would have had a terribly boring life.



The problem is, not even my family asks me to get married anymore. They trust that I'm on my own path which I believe in. So for coworkers to do this is just insanity to me.

In short, you're a snowflake that can't get anyone.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Ask them how you're supposed to spend the weekends boning their moms if you're married.
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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OP just show them pictures of all the various hotties that you get to bang and let them spend the rest of their miserable lives jealous that they have to go back to their arranged wives, the only women that they have ever slept with.

explain to them, in detail, the many amazing and different things that different girls like to do in the sack.
 

IronWing

No Lifer
Jul 20, 2001
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Ask them how much they plan to spend on wedding presents. See what it's worth to them.
 
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