Cliffs
FIL Gets Drunk and Threatens to kill me and kick my ass
I call cops on FIL and he goes home
FIL comes back and starts threatening again.
I call cops on FIL again and he goes home. Copes are going to put a warrant out for his arrest.
Next day FIL claims to not remember a thing and he?s sorry for anything that happened.
Had a pretty crazy experience with my Father-In-Law a few days ago and I?m not sure I handled it correctly.
First we have kind of an odd setup. My Mother-In-Law has heart trouble and my FIL is a over the road truck driver who is not home often. They live across the street from us but, since my MIL has heart problems she has been staying with us so my wife can keep an eye on her. This creates a problem where my FIL think he has free reign over at our house and can come and go as he pleases. This has always aggravated me but I don't say much to just keep the peace.
Saturday around 8:00pm my FIL got extremely drunk over at his house. My Sister-In-Law and him got a in a fight and she ended up leaving and about an hour later my FIL came barging into the house wanting to speak to her. We told him that she left and he starts going off on how everyone treats him like trash and everyone thinks he is stupid. I told him that no one thinks that and no one is treating him like trash and he wants me to step outside to fight. My Wife then steps in and tells him to go home and go to bed that he?s just drunk.
Around 10:00pm my FIL comes back over banging on our front door wanting to speak with our MIL. I told him that he?s not coming inside since he?s drunk and we don't want him around our son. He then goes crazy saying that he?s going to kill me and wants to kick my ass. I then tell him to get off our property or I will call the police. He hit the door a few more times and then went home after I called the police.
Around 10:30pm the police showed up. They seemed to think it is humorous I called them on a 63 year old man that was wanting to fight, but they said they would go try to talk to him and tell him not to come back over. He wouldn?t answer the door for them and my wife did not want to press charges so they left.
Around 12:30am my FIL bangs on the window wanting the keys to my MIL's car which he already had. My Wife told him through the window that she would not give him the keys since he is drunk and could lose his license/job. He then goes off on me calling me a coward and everything else imaginable for calling the cops and wants me to come outside again. This time my wife tells me to call the cops.
Around 1:00am The Police came back and took statements from both of us, they then went to go over and talk to the FIL. Again he would not answer the door and they said that they cannot go in and arrest him over a misdemeanor. They tell us that they will put a warrant out for his arrest.
He did not come back over that night after the Police came a 2nd time. The next morning he calls and wonders why everyone is mad at him and my MIL told him what happened. He claims to not remember a thing and that he?s extremely sorry.
Not really sure what were going to do about him now. My wife is really torn about it since it is her Dad, and he does live right across the street from us. I kind of feel bad about calling the Police on him but I did not want him to break a window or something else stupid. I do not see any point in going out and fighting with him as it would not have solved anything.
FIL Gets Drunk and Threatens to kill me and kick my ass
I call cops on FIL and he goes home
FIL comes back and starts threatening again.
I call cops on FIL again and he goes home. Copes are going to put a warrant out for his arrest.
Next day FIL claims to not remember a thing and he?s sorry for anything that happened.
Had a pretty crazy experience with my Father-In-Law a few days ago and I?m not sure I handled it correctly.
First we have kind of an odd setup. My Mother-In-Law has heart trouble and my FIL is a over the road truck driver who is not home often. They live across the street from us but, since my MIL has heart problems she has been staying with us so my wife can keep an eye on her. This creates a problem where my FIL think he has free reign over at our house and can come and go as he pleases. This has always aggravated me but I don't say much to just keep the peace.
Saturday around 8:00pm my FIL got extremely drunk over at his house. My Sister-In-Law and him got a in a fight and she ended up leaving and about an hour later my FIL came barging into the house wanting to speak to her. We told him that she left and he starts going off on how everyone treats him like trash and everyone thinks he is stupid. I told him that no one thinks that and no one is treating him like trash and he wants me to step outside to fight. My Wife then steps in and tells him to go home and go to bed that he?s just drunk.
Around 10:00pm my FIL comes back over banging on our front door wanting to speak with our MIL. I told him that he?s not coming inside since he?s drunk and we don't want him around our son. He then goes crazy saying that he?s going to kill me and wants to kick my ass. I then tell him to get off our property or I will call the police. He hit the door a few more times and then went home after I called the police.
Around 10:30pm the police showed up. They seemed to think it is humorous I called them on a 63 year old man that was wanting to fight, but they said they would go try to talk to him and tell him not to come back over. He wouldn?t answer the door for them and my wife did not want to press charges so they left.
Around 12:30am my FIL bangs on the window wanting the keys to my MIL's car which he already had. My Wife told him through the window that she would not give him the keys since he is drunk and could lose his license/job. He then goes off on me calling me a coward and everything else imaginable for calling the cops and wants me to come outside again. This time my wife tells me to call the cops.
Around 1:00am The Police came back and took statements from both of us, they then went to go over and talk to the FIL. Again he would not answer the door and they said that they cannot go in and arrest him over a misdemeanor. They tell us that they will put a warrant out for his arrest.
He did not come back over that night after the Police came a 2nd time. The next morning he calls and wonders why everyone is mad at him and my MIL told him what happened. He claims to not remember a thing and that he?s extremely sorry.
Not really sure what were going to do about him now. My wife is really torn about it since it is her Dad, and he does live right across the street from us. I kind of feel bad about calling the Police on him but I did not want him to break a window or something else stupid. I do not see any point in going out and fighting with him as it would not have solved anything.