The problem with people today is we are too egocentric. We never think from other's perspective.
Forget for a minute that she is on welfare and put these requirements into you job search. Not only would this be cumbersome, but it would affect your ability to find as many jobs and potentially land one since there would be too much paperwork to do.
Don't get me wrong, I hate working hard for others as much as the next guy, but some percentage of people on welfare (potentially a large one) are there because life has been far tougher for them than it has been for us.
I also do believe that you make your own circumstances in life and therefore need to correct them.
At times though people just need help. I don't believe an exhorbitant amount of paperwork is helpful.