It Started a few weeks back, i met kelly ( not her real name ) online after she sent me a PM on one of those friend websites. We talked for maby a month and thne we finally met. When i saw her she was ALOT better looking than in her photos, so i was very pleased. We spent the night playing pool chatting about life her 2 kids and whatever else, then we went to a movie and made out like teenagers, it was great. I topped out the night by taking her to my place drank alittle more flirted with the idea of sex with some light foreplay and i called it a night.
All and all it was the most fun ive had since my first date when i was 15.
Now after bliss comes terror.
Next day i didnt call her right away, so i went to the beach with some friends and i get a call.
So guy calls my phone asking who is this, so i reply with u called me who are you. The caller hangs up and does the same thing like 5 times till i blew up and started shouting at the caller and eventually he ask me how the ****** i know kelly, i told him how is that any of your business, so he gets even more angry all of a sudden and start asking me you ****** her you ****** her, by this time i am well pissed so i tell him yes im ****** her , thne i hear her all of a sudden shouting and crying, and he hangs up.
Id say about a week passes and i get a email from her. It urns out the x fiance also the father of her 2 children took her phone when he came to pickup their kids and saw my name number and flipped out.
She told me she couldn't have called because he destroyed her phone, choked her till she passed out and basically told her u and every part of you belongs to me so no man gets to ****** my property.
So now im in this position. I really like this woman ALOT. But i dont know if i should just toss her aside, because id have to deal with her x, which isnt the main problem, but it still is a problem. I orginally got conserned cause of her need for violence or hurtfull acts during more intimate stuff. Also the slightest conversation she cowers down immediatly if i disagree and she says sorry almost immediatly. These things ive never had to deal with before, so im in this present bind.
any advice as how to deal with it would be appreciated
All and all it was the most fun ive had since my first date when i was 15.
Now after bliss comes terror.
Next day i didnt call her right away, so i went to the beach with some friends and i get a call.
So guy calls my phone asking who is this, so i reply with u called me who are you. The caller hangs up and does the same thing like 5 times till i blew up and started shouting at the caller and eventually he ask me how the ****** i know kelly, i told him how is that any of your business, so he gets even more angry all of a sudden and start asking me you ****** her you ****** her, by this time i am well pissed so i tell him yes im ****** her , thne i hear her all of a sudden shouting and crying, and he hangs up.
Id say about a week passes and i get a email from her. It urns out the x fiance also the father of her 2 children took her phone when he came to pickup their kids and saw my name number and flipped out.
She told me she couldn't have called because he destroyed her phone, choked her till she passed out and basically told her u and every part of you belongs to me so no man gets to ****** my property.
So now im in this position. I really like this woman ALOT. But i dont know if i should just toss her aside, because id have to deal with her x, which isnt the main problem, but it still is a problem. I orginally got conserned cause of her need for violence or hurtfull acts during more intimate stuff. Also the slightest conversation she cowers down immediatly if i disagree and she says sorry almost immediatly. These things ive never had to deal with before, so im in this present bind.
any advice as how to deal with it would be appreciated