Spoken like the true gentlemanOriginally posted by: SampSon
You could have some great sex if you're into that.
Spoken like the true gentlemanOriginally posted by: SampSon
You could have some great sex if you're into that.
Originally posted by: rgwalt
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
just prove me wrong and i'll appologize. how tall are you
No, I don't think I have to "prove you wrong."
You owe me an apology, period.
Have you ever considered that I might be living in a high-crime area where home invasions are relativley common?
Have you ever considered that I might know a lot of people who have been subjected to home invasions?
Have you ever considered that I might have felt that have previously betrayed my best feelings, left a woman who I really loved in that kind of situation and she got killed, leaving me filled with regret ever since?
Have you ever considered that mabye I have gotten a woman out of that kind of situation, married her, etc and feel like it was the best thing I've ever done?
You don't know any of my reasoning for why I feel the way I do, yet you have no problem judging me when you should instead be asking me why I belive the way I do. If my views really seem alien to you, why don't you ask why I feel the way I do instead of being so pretentious?
No i didnt consider any of those things because they are not relevant here. In my real world experience when I've encountered individuals with your attitude and outlook they were all on the shorter side of the scale and they were bitter at the world and they felt like they always had something to prove and were trying to compensate for something. So I dont need to consider the what if's that you propose because my life experience is more valueable. Your views are not alien to me at all so I dont need to ask, I already know your short, get it?
How is none of that stuff relevant? Is thread about you or the OP who is going to have to make some commitments to protect himself if he decides to stay with her?
BTW, go google the average height of an American male, and then remember that I'm 5' 11". The last time I checked, that made me the same height, if not taller than the average joe. You are a fvcking presumptious idiot.
well i appologize then you are the exception that proves the rule. doesnt change the fact you are a fool for the attitude you have regarding guns and settling disputes.
How is it wrong to use force to defend yourself, your family, or your home? Are you going to lay down and take a beating? Are you going to sit and watch while someone beats your GF/wife? Are you going to help the criminals walk out the door with your belongings? Because by not taking action against criminal behavior encourages this sort of behavior. If someone breaks into my home, I want them to know that they should be prepared to die for whatever they want. It is my home and my belongings, not theirs. Now, if someone entered my home with the express purpose of robbing it and nothing else, I wouldn't be inclined to shoot them (read kill them). However, you cannot say with any degree of certainty what will happen when someone enters your home with some sort of criminal intent. I don't look at percentages when it comes to my life. I don't think "well, statistically you only have a 20% chance of being a victim of more than a robbery here, so it is best to crawl out a window and let them have whatever they want". Screw that.
Even though the OPs situation is different, the same ideas apply.
R
Originally posted by: SampSon
You beat him until his short term memory fails, duh.Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: SampSon
You could have some great sex if you're into that. Otherwise you should walk away, but not before beating the living sh!t out of her ex and calling the police.
i wouldnt risk jail time for this woman or her ex
Originally posted by: Bushman5
if however i have to deal with her present mental state for the extent of our relationship thjen yes i will toss her.
If she can change and i mena actaully change not just zombify her self into anotehr state of mind, thne yes i want to give it a shot.
and yes i luv kids.
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: rgwalt
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
just prove me wrong and i'll appologize. how tall are you
No, I don't think I have to "prove you wrong."
You owe me an apology, period.
Have you ever considered that I might be living in a high-crime area where home invasions are relativley common?
Have you ever considered that I might know a lot of people who have been subjected to home invasions?
Have you ever considered that I might have felt that have previously betrayed my best feelings, left a woman who I really loved in that kind of situation and she got killed, leaving me filled with regret ever since?
Have you ever considered that mabye I have gotten a woman out of that kind of situation, married her, etc and feel like it was the best thing I've ever done?
You don't know any of my reasoning for why I feel the way I do, yet you have no problem judging me when you should instead be asking me why I belive the way I do. If my views really seem alien to you, why don't you ask why I feel the way I do instead of being so pretentious?
No i didnt consider any of those things because they are not relevant here. In my real world experience when I've encountered individuals with your attitude and outlook they were all on the shorter side of the scale and they were bitter at the world and they felt like they always had something to prove and were trying to compensate for something. So I dont need to consider the what if's that you propose because my life experience is more valueable. Your views are not alien to me at all so I dont need to ask, I already know your short, get it?
How is none of that stuff relevant? Is thread about you or the OP who is going to have to make some commitments to protect himself if he decides to stay with her?
BTW, go google the average height of an American male, and then remember that I'm 5' 11". The last time I checked, that made me the same height, if not taller than the average joe. You are a fvcking presumptious idiot.
well i appologize then you are the exception that proves the rule. doesnt change the fact you are a fool for the attitude you have regarding guns and settling disputes.
How is it wrong to use force to defend yourself, your family, or your home? Are you going to lay down and take a beating? Are you going to sit and watch while someone beats your GF/wife? Are you going to help the criminals walk out the door with your belongings? Because by not taking action against criminal behavior encourages this sort of behavior. If someone breaks into my home, I want them to know that they should be prepared to die for whatever they want. It is my home and my belongings, not theirs. Now, if someone entered my home with the express purpose of robbing it and nothing else, I wouldn't be inclined to shoot them (read kill them). However, you cannot say with any degree of certainty what will happen when someone enters your home with some sort of criminal intent. I don't look at percentages when it comes to my life. I don't think "well, statistically you only have a 20% chance of being a victim of more than a robbery here, so it is best to crawl out a window and let them have whatever they want". Screw that.
Even though the OPs situation is different, the same ideas apply.
R
defending your family against intruders and such is alot alot alot alot alot different than dating a girl who likes to be smacked around with a couple kids and getting involved with her ex. comparing apples and rocks in this case
Originally posted by: Bushman5
2 she says no he would never kill me
Originally posted by: Bushman5
1 she dosent want to go to the police
2 she says no he would never kill me
I am at a ross road here. I really like her, im wondering if i should try to help her. If it wasnt for hr x beating her up and her having this syndrom i could really see us going places.
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Well, honestly, you know what is happening in her life, you know the terror that she is living with, why are you going to let her continue to live like that? Maybe not dating her now would be the best thing, but definitely helping her out of that situation would be the best thing you could ever do for her. No joke. I mean, like, you can date her if you want to, but it's going to be a long journey of healing for her, but being a friend, helping her get a restraining order and all that jazz, that is what she needs now.
she isnt his responsiblity. he has (presumably) his own life to deal with and he would be retarded to toss it out the window for some broad he met on myspace. The woman is an adult not a helpless child. She can have out of whatever shituation she got herself into in the first place.
Some people are set in a victim mentality, so they really can't get out of the situation that they're in because they don't allow themselves to. So in reality, she may be a helpless child in her own eyes. She needs a stable foundation to start to build her own structure on, which is why I said it probably wouldn't be the best idea for him to date her, but for him to start the foundations of compassion in her life.
I tell you this, she really needs Jesus. Whom the Son set free is free indeed. And if you show her the love of Christ and help her out of her situation it will impact her eternity.
If you want to take the road where you don't care about anyone else or their problems or helping them out, that is your deal. Personally, I like to sow into the lives of people around me and plant seeds that will bear good fruit. Being a friend to someone isn't tossing your life out the window.
And if you ever become addicted to drugs or alcohol I hope you realize that you said that you can get yourself out of any situtation that you got yourself into. Because you really can't, not all of them. You personally might not choose to do certain things, but not everyone makes the same choices as you do, and some people need a teacher in order to understand things. Some people need to learn basic life concepts, and if they didn't have anyone to teach them to them in the first place, or someone who cared enough to, why then should they suffer their whole lives because of it?
I tell you this, before I came to know Jesus I had no idea how to get free from the things that were oppressing me. I had no way to get free from drugs and alcohol, and then He said, "My yoke is easy. My burdon is light" and I started to learn about living through Him, and I have continued to do so. This woman needs that same experience, to feel the love that she is lacking. That security that comes from the oppression is what she is using to try to fill the void of what she is lacking. The bible says we love because He first loved us. And she needs to experience that love.
OR the OP could just kill the mthrfvcker :laugh: :evil:
God has a hard-on for marines because we kill everything we see! He plays His games, we play ours! To show our appreciation for so much power, we keep heaven packed with fresh souls! God was here before the Marine Corps! So you can give your heart to Jesus, but your ass belongs to the Corps!
I'm not a marine, nor a marine pretender, but that was all I could think of while reading your post.
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: acemcmac
I'd have her stay with me and make sure the guy knew that she was with me. When he breaks into my house to do soemething about it, I'd rip him 30 new 7.62mm holes with my AK. Problem solved
On a serious note, you really really need to arm up and keep her with you until he does something about it. Don't let on that you're packing heat until you're pulling the trigger. Make sure he breaks in before you start shooting.
wtf gun toting moron. this isnt his battle or his business. he needs to walk away.