thehstrybean
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Originally posted by: Bushman5
1 she dosent want to go to the police
2 she says no he would never kill me
I am at a ross road here. I really like her, im wondering if i should try to help her. If it wasnt for hr x beating her up and her having this syndrom i could really see us going places.
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
u think ron goldman thought he was gonna be killed by oj? buy a gun.
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
how do u trust her judgment anyways.
she goes out with a total creep. not only that she has 2 of his children.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
how do u trust her judgment anyways.
she goes out with a total creep. not only that she has 2 of his children.
Yes we finally have a guy that's figured life out...oh snap; you have "Portman" in your sig.
nevermind false alarm...everyone move on.
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
oh i'm sorry, the whole guy that hits me must be bad thing is elitist and stuff.
and wow, you looked at my sig, good for you. sometimes people have sigs they cant be bothered to change. but i tell u what, portman doesn't beat me
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
oh i'm sorry, the whole guy that hits me must be bad thing is elitist and stuff.
and wow, you looked at my sig, good for you. sometimes people have sigs they cant be bothered to change. but i tell u what, portman doesn't beat me
Just to let you know...mmkay.
Most of the time, when the guy starts to beat someone; it's after the commitment has been made. Chances are in her life it was somewhere between the first and second kid.
Chances are you get knocked the f out on the first date, you are not coming back.
Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
well obviously. but still you must realize this double standard we have of the poor innocent helpless woman is based on age old sexism. we wouldn't tolerate really pitty a man that allowed himself to be abused that way for so long.
Originally posted by: thomsbrain
if she gets psychotherapy, and you are a patient person, and you think it's worth sticking around to see if things improve, then stay.
if any of the above aren't the case, then you'll have to go.
yes..it is a requirement...or some other alternative form of therapy which is an equivalent in goal because she likes violence in bed and that guy choked her etc..shes obviously screwed up..people dont like violence in bad when they are healthy individualsOriginally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: thomsbrain
if she gets psychotherapy, and you are a patient person, and you think it's worth sticking around to see if things improve, then stay.
if any of the above aren't the case, then you'll have to go.
psychotherapy is not a requirement yet, however; should she decide not to get legal help then yes.
Originally posted by: LumbergTech
yes..it is a requirement...or some other alternative form of therapy which is an equivalent in goal because she likes violence in bed and that guy choked her etc..shes obviously screwed up..people dont like violence in bad when they are healthy individuals
Originally posted by: Bushman5
UPDATE:
She got back together with her x.
No phone call, no email, no nothing.
Im gonna call her at work tommorow.
I got this information from her cousin, i will update some more
Originally posted by: Bushman5
I got this information from her cousin, i will update some more
Originally posted by: Bushman5
UPDATE:
She got back together with her x.
No phone call, no email, no nothing.
Im gonna call her at work tommorow.
I got this information from her cousin, i will update some more
Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Well, honestly, you know what is happening in her life, you know the terror that she is living with, why are you going to let her continue to live like that? Maybe not dating her now would be the best thing, but definitely helping her out of that situation would be the best thing you could ever do for her. No joke. I mean, like, you can date her if you want to, but it's going to be a long journey of healing for her, but being a friend, helping her get a restraining order and all that jazz, that is what she needs now.