Do you have teenage children?
How would you handle the situation?
I'm not a parent yet and I don't pretend to be.
But I know how my parents raised me. I was some stupid ass immature kid back then. My parents didn't shoot my damn laptop or humiliate me on internet. That shit goes deep to a kid. "Well the kid shouldn't have trashed her dad on FB!" That's why she's a stupid kid!? And you're NOT. You flinging mud with her on same level don't cut it.
I did LOTS of trouble making and got into every angle of discipline. My parents didn't give me 'warm fuzzy' talks. But this one time, my mom sat me down and said, "Listen, I love you but you have truly disappointed me this time." Then she just walked away.
Holy shit that touched home deeper than any scolding, grounding, taking away SNES, or punishment I have received.
She wisely retained her relationship with me no matter what shit staining I did to her.
Today, I love both of my parents to death and speak to them few times a week on a personal basis.