Daughter posts disrespectful rant on Facebook, father shoots laptop

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Humpy

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LOL at predictable damage control.

Maybe this goober will think twice about posting his rage on youtube the next time he feels "disrespected".
 

OutHouse

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Jesus, some of you think all it would take is to sit down and explain to your irrational teenager good and bad and they will have a light bulb go off in their head and instantly act good. Uh, no, it doesn't work that way. Sometimes drastic measures are needed. This guy is a great dad.

exactly. i got 1 speeding ticket while in high school my dad grounded me from driving for 2 months. when i got my keys back he flat out told me if i got another ticket he would sell the car no ifs ands or buts about it.

message was heard loud and clear and i made extra sure i got no tickets.
 

classy

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Jesus, some of you think all it would take is to sit down and explain to your irrational teenager good and bad and they will have a light bulb go off in their head and instantly act good. Uh, no, it doesn't work that way. Sometimes drastic measures are needed. This guy is a great dad.

Being a great dad doesn't require taking a .45 and shooting her laptop.
 

Beev

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I would have simply reformatted and password protected her laptop and turned it into a filesharing server for porn. Take that, daughter.
 

69Mach1

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Well first thing- You have to tailor punishments to the child, what works on one is completely useless on another. Second - Once you've threatened a specific result for misbehavior you absolutely must follow through or you've lost credibility. Once that happens life gets harder for everyone involved. I learned early on to not paint myself into a corner and threaten something I was unwilling to follow through on.
 

Daverino

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Dad needs a visit from social services.

Seeing how violent, irrational and prone to overreaction the father is, I can see why the kid might be disrespectful. And nothing builds the self-esteem of your teenage daughter like publicly humiliating them on YouTube.
 

IronWing

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He smokes, therefore he's a loser and a poor parent. Also, he's an inmature control freak. Most parents would have been amused by the kid's emo whining about the cruelty of the world.

Video was funny though.
 
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JTsyo

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The post she made on the Youtube vid? Kind of curious what she could have said that made him mad enough.
 

surfsatwerk

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He smokes, therefore he's a loser and a poor parent. Also, he's an inmature control freak. Most parents would have been amused by the kid's emo whining about the cruelty of the world.

Video was funny though.

You know what they say, "He smokes, he pokes".
 

waggy

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FYI, its sad that nobody in this thread has commented that the daughter BLOCKED Family and church friends from her facebook. sorry as a dad i would have REAL issues with that.

yeap. her computer would be gone. her phone would be gone. my only issue with the guy was shooting the laptop. though after reading his post i understand why.
 

CPA

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Being a great dad doesn't require taking a .45 and shooting her laptop.

Why does that matter? It harmed NO ONE. It got the point across, was quick and apparently effective.

I don't understand why some of you are so hungup on the fact he shot the computer. Big f'in deal. His laptop, he can do with it what he wants. Focus, people, focus.
 

videogames101

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Because it's disrespectful towards them. It has nothing to do with his insecurity, and everything to do with her lack of wisdom.

Parents don't deserve respect by default. I'm not sure why this idea is so prevalent.

There is no problem with shooting the laptop, it was a great way to make an impact.

That being said, your 15 year old daughter complains about you as a father on Facebook, and you think that by taking away her means of communication, you will change her feelings towards you? She'll have more respect for you? Hardly.
 
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classy

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Why does that matter? It harmed NO ONE. It got the point across, was quick and apparently effective.

I don't understand why some of you are so hungup on the fact he shot the computer. Big f'in deal. His laptop, he can do with it what he wants. Focus, people, focus.

I respect all parents and we all raise our kids differently. But with that, for a father to brandish a gun in anger and shoot one of her belongings is beyond sensible or reasonable. A gun sends a very poor image of him as a person let alone a father. I am all for ruling the house, but you rule through compromise and above all respect. At 15 she is moving into adulthood and he needs to approach this is a different way. I truly question the mindset of a father who wants his daughter see him using a gun out of anger with her.
 
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videogames101

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I respect all parents and we all raise our kids differently. But with that, for a father to brandish a gun in anger and shoot one of her belongings is beyond sensible or reasonable. A gun sends a very poor image of him as a person let alone a father. I am all for ruling the house, but you rule through compromise and above all respect. At 15 she is moving into adulthood and he needs to approach this is a different way. I truly question the mindset of father who wants to see his daughter using a gun out of anger with her.

Nice flavor
 

AznAnarchy99

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Parents don't deserve respect by default. I'm not sure why this idea is so prevalent.

There is no problem with shooting the laptop, it was a great way to make an impact.

That being said, your 15 year old daughter complains about you as a father on Facebook, and you think that by taking away her means of communication, you will change her feelings towards you? She'll have more respect for you? Hardly.

You think a teenager knows any respect by default? I sure as hell didnt and I never realized it until I turned 18/19. I treated my dad like shit and got punished and I hated him for it.
 

Jeffg010

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Why does that matter? It harmed NO ONE. It got the point across, was quick and apparently effective.

I don't understand why some of you are so hungup on the fact he shot the computer. Big f'in deal. His laptop, he can do with it what he wants. Focus, people, focus.

The haters on this broad are all big fat nerds. They don't care about the father or the daughter. These nerds are crying because that laptop got destroyed. I guarantee you they are all right now muttering that stupid bastard! I could have use that laptop and put it to good use why did have to killlllll thhhhheeee lllllaaaapppptooooppppp!

Let me clue you guys in you have to follow through and show the kid you mean business. IF you don’t they will push you around because they know you are just bluffing, props to the dad.
 

FallenHero

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Parents don't deserve respect by default. I'm not sure why this idea is so prevalent.

There is no problem with shooting the laptop, it was a great way to make an impact.

That being said, your 15 year old daughter complains about you as a father on Facebook, and you think that by taking away her means of communication, you will change her feelings towards you? She'll have more respect for you? Hardly.

And you are how old? I don't think you fully understand consequences of actions.
 

SAWYER

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You gotta keep it in context. I don't mean in general. But using a gun to shoot a laptop because your daughter is mouthy, I can't see how anyone can see something positive out of that action.

I think it was personally dumb as I would have sold it or whatever, but his laptop and he has every right to do it
 

CPA

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I respect all parents and we all raise our kids differently. But with that, for a father to brandish a gun in anger and shoot one of her belongings is beyond sensible or reasonable. A gun sends a very poor image of him as a person let alone a father. I am all for ruling the house, but you rule through compromise and above all respect. At 15 she is moving into adulthood and he needs to approach this is a different way. I truly question the mindset of a father who wants his daughter see him using a gun out of anger with her.

Would it have been better if you used a sledgehammer?
 

CPA

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You gotta keep it in context. I don't mean in general. But using a gun to shoot a laptop because your daughter is mouthy, I can't see how anyone can see something positive out of that action.

You seemed to be concerned about the tool, not the action.
 

OutHouse

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Dad needs a visit from social services.

Seeing how violent, irrational and prone to overreaction the father is, I can see why the kid might be disrespectful. And nothing builds the self-esteem of your teenage daughter like publicly humiliating them on YouTube.

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