Originally posted by: whiteboy81
I'm guessing you're about 17...right?
I don't mean any offense by that, it's just that I felt similar about my girlfriends ex-boyfriends when I was that age.
As you get older this will wear off and you'll get over the jealousy thing...and you will eventually laugh at how much you let these things bother you.
Originally posted by: faenix
Am I being unreasonable? Or do I have a right to be jealous?
Originally posted by: Gurck
I would have guessed 15. No insult, can't even put a finger on why I thought that... I guess it's the phlegMTV / Real (dumb) World tone of the post. I'd concentrate on learning and getting good grades / test scores, concentrating on puppy love in HS won't get you anywhere.
Originally posted by: faenix
A thread with no flames or dissing or whatsoever.
Thanks guys, it sounds cheezy coming from a 17 year old, but I really do appreciate it.
I'm thinking over everything right now.
Originally posted by: GeneralGrievous
I hope you are applying there because you want to go there, and not because she is. Following a girl around at 17 is rather stupid.
Originally posted by: Lola
personally, i do not think you are being unreasonable.
I would NEVER bring up old flames like that in any relationship i was in.
You need to seriously sit her down and ask her why she is still talking about him and why she still has photod of them together.
The key is not to be the bad guy.
Really tell her how much you care for her and that it truly hurts you when she does/says what she does. try and find what her motives are and why she still brings up her past.
or if you wanted to fight fire with fire, just start talking about a girl you dated before and she how she reacts.
Originally posted by: nan0bug
...I think she just wants to make you jealous because it makes her feel wanted, so play along, but maybe you should focus on other ways of making her feel wanted so she doesn't have to use her ex as a means of getting attention. If that doesn't change things, then its time to find a new girlfriend.