She trusted him and gave the $$$ to him.
He sounds like a normal 20-something. We're fuck ups. We're lazy.. We get into trouble and throw parties. We are literally as mature as 15 year olds from the previous generation. Why? We were babied.
You and your wife HANDED a 17 year old $5000? I'm starting to figure out how the son failed to learn self-sufficiency and financial responsibility.
I've had my own bank account since I was 8 years old. I think their 17 year old daughter probably has one too.
I think I got my first bank card when i was 12. The first thing I ever purchased on debit was a $20 baseball bat
Having your own bank account is one thing. Having your parents fill it up with $5,000 and telling you to go buy your own car without any guidance, advice or parental approval is something totally different.
Jokes aside, the structure of service (Peace Corp, military service, etc.) might just be the structure he needs. This coming from a hippy liberal.
Having your own bank account is one thing. Having your parents fill it up with $5,000 and telling you to go buy your own car without any guidance, advice or parental approval is something totally different.
Well aren't you the fuckin role model for this kid...
Ummm, there are two ways to read it. You are making some broad assumptions.
"He is the newest situation....my wife's daughter is 17 and she had about $5k to buy her 1st car"
From that sentence, I would assume the opposite of what you did. I would assume that his daughter has saved 5K of her OWN money to buy a car. When you have a child that has done that type of saving, then you will want to advise and help them but the decision on spending the money is hers.
This will be a costly lesson but I guarantee that if it was her money, she will NEVER make that mistake again. It was well worth the money if that is the case.
Good luck finding someone dumb enough to pay you a $1,000 a month in rent and not claim it on their taxes.
Why cant people put the update in the original post?
So...from reading your text...your wife is a deadbeat and her son lives with you?
Then, you tell us that she's a 24 yo loser with a son?
OK,[/ grammar nazi]
It sounds like you're building an "illegal suite" in your basement, (apartment?) that the loser 24 yo son of your wife is going to live in and (supposedly) pay rent?
If that's the case, you're going to continue supporting him...just in your basement, not in your "house."
The OP, while his adopted son is an idiot, strikes me as an idiot too.
These are everywhere....moron
Ive posted a blurb about this loser months ago and will give a summation. Loser 24 y/o son from my wifes 1st partner is too lazy to work and get his life in order, prefers to spend 16 hours/day playing his stupid game.