Deadbeat wifes son is moving out in Spring...actually forced out

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Mxylplyx

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I dont see why people are giving the OP a hard time. He gave the "kid" several months notice that his time there was coming to an end. What the hell is he supposed to do? Try and start over and raise the "kid" right? Kid has to grow up some day, and the sooner that comes about, however unpleasant it might be for him, the better for the "kid" it will be.
 

nick1985

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I dont see why people are giving the OP a hard time. He gave the "kid" several months notice that his time there was coming to an end. What the hell is he supposed to do? Try and start over and raise the "kid" right? Kid has to grow up some day, and the sooner that comes about, however unpleasant it might be for him, the better for the "kid" it will be.

this
 

Newbian

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I dont see why people are giving the OP a hard time. He gave the "kid" several months notice that his time there was coming to an end. What the hell is he supposed to do? Try and start over and raise the "kid" right? Kid has to grow up some day, and the sooner that comes about, however unpleasant it might be for him, the better for the "kid" it will be.

It's atot...we have to make fun of the op otherwise you get banned.
 

James Bond

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Eat shit.

Why does the guy 'need to get a life' for pointing out the illegalities of what the OP is doing?

This thread is about some deadbeat kid living in the OPs house and some kid is giving him shit for wanting to rent out his house and make some money? Not the time or place.

A little harsh don't you think? Seek help.
 

JEDI

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Eat shit.

Why does the guy 'need to get a life' for pointing out the illegalities of what the OP is doing?

What a moron

imagine this:
your wiping youself, and your finger goes thru the toilet paper
 

JEDI

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Op, what's your plan if your son REFUSES to leave by the March deadline?

in some states, you cant just throw him out on the streets.

cops wont evict w/o a court order. you gota give your son 30days notice to evict, even if there's no rent invovled (in some states).
 

mrrman

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Op, what's your plan if your son REFUSES to leave by the March deadline?

in some states, you cant just throw him out on the streets.

cops wont evict w/o a court order. you gota give your son 30days notice to evict, even if there's no rent invovled (in some states).


Hes been told that we have plans to build a suite and rent it out in Nov 09....he was given a date of March 20th, 10 to vacate. He is well aware of this and I have sold all the contents of the basement within the last few months. Construction has started and he sees and hears it...daily. Like I said before, if his stuff is not out by March 20th, I will move it out. I have new locks to install on all the doors to so he has no access to my house.
 
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Maybe he will take up stealing like you.

If your stepson was smart he would report you for the FELONY you plan to commit. He may be a deadbeat but you are an admited crimal, who steals from the people.

tax evasion for one. Also his ignoring of local and state laws for permits.

I take it you pay use tax on online purchases you make, never go above the speed limit, etc...

Stop being such a prick.

The stepson is clearly a f*cking deadbeat and needs to be put out on his ass. He isn't being kicked out tomorrow with no notice. He was given an ultimatum many months back to get his shit straight and get his life on track. And if the OP feels a little pleasure getting this deadbeat out of his home, good for him. I'm sure it's pretty frustrating living with someone who amounts to a leeching lump; you can't baby the son forever.
 

James Bond

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i take it you pay use tax on online purchases you make, never go above the speed limit, etc...

Stop being such a prick.

The stepson is clearly a f*cking deadbeat and needs to be put out on his ass. He isn't being kicked out tomorrow with no notice. He was given an ultimatum many months back to get his shit straight and get his life on track. And if the op feels a little pleasure getting this deadbeat out of his home, good for him. I'm sure it's pretty frustrating living with someone who amounts to a leeching lump; you can't baby the son forever.

qfmft
 

mrrman

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I take it you pay use tax on online purchases you make, never go above the speed limit, etc...

Stop being such a prick.

The stepson is clearly a f*cking deadbeat and needs to be put out on his ass. He isn't being kicked out tomorrow with no notice. He was given an ultimatum many months back to get his shit straight and get his life on track. And if the OP feels a little pleasure getting this deadbeat out of his home, good for him. I'm sure it's pretty frustrating living with someone who amounts to a leeching lump; you can't baby the son forever.

Thanks for the great reply....its amazing that I am being made out to be the bad guy here...shit...I would love his lifestyle...dont pay rent( owes us 7 months worth), eats for free, comes and goes as he pleases, dont work or attempt to look for a full time job, sleep all day, play his PC all day long...what a dream life.... where do i sign up???
 

nick1985

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Thanks for the great reply....its amazing that I am being made out to be the bad guy here...shit...I would love his lifestyle...dont pay rent( owes us 7 months worth), eats for free, comes and goes as he pleases, dont work or attempt to look for a full time job, sleep all day, play his PC all day long...what a dream life.... where do i sign up???

If that worthless sack of crap lived in my house and I busted him eating my food I would slap that shit out of his hand every time.
 

BarneyFife

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Where is the "real" father in all of this? OP, you shouldn't have married someone with kids from a previous relationship. That is the biggest no-no in life.
 

mrrman

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Where is the "real" father in all of this? OP, you shouldn't have married someone with kids from a previous relationship. That is the biggest no-no in life.

Dead...he was a piece of work to from looking at past records....quite shaddy...maybe like father like son...
 

DrPizza

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I'd give him final notice during the next couple of days - perhaps some notarized document or something - just to point to the seriousness.
 

PhoKingGuy

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I take it you pay use tax on online purchases you make, never go above the speed limit, etc...

Stop being such a prick.

The stepson is clearly a f*cking deadbeat and needs to be put out on his ass. He isn't being kicked out tomorrow with no notice. He was given an ultimatum many months back to get his shit straight and get his life on track. And if the OP feels a little pleasure getting this deadbeat out of his home, good for him. I'm sure it's pretty frustrating living with someone who amounts to a leeching lump; you can't baby the son forever.

Yup, QFT there

I still think you should help fix your daughters car situation though. She probably didn't know any better and would you really want your kid driving in that jalop?
 

bobdole369

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Damn, you let him suck your utilities for a whole year?

<lumbergh> Yeeeeeeaaaahhh</lumbergh>
As noted - we were only a third of the house here. Roomies, while jaded by WoW, only seemed to give a shit when the cable internet shut off because neither of them paid the bill because licking a stamp or logging onto the power company website was not raiding or farming for <zombie> epiczzzz, EPICZZZZZ!!!!</zombie>

So our cries of "Hey fuckers! This douche costs us money!" basically went unheard. It took a while to get one of them to stop suckling at the Alliance teat long enough to agree and say "OK kick him out. Now can I raid with you ?"
 

bobdole369

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To the OP - to CYA you might wish to look into your states landlord/tenant law. Pretend teh deadbeat is a renter who hasn't paid rent. Serve upon him a notice in writing demanding payment of $0 rent. Give the requisite time to correct (as per your state law) and then file for eviction. It'll be a few hundred total, but worth it as the sheriff will come and dump his stuff on the street.
 

ShawnD1

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OP, put all the house computers on wifi and don't tell your son what the password is.

I don't really like the idea of booting people out when they have nowhere to go, but living there doesn't mean it needs to be a spa. No internet. No TV. Constantly get him to do things like take out garbage, fold the laundry, clean the dishes, help make dinner, mow the lawn, shovel the snow. It should be "bad" enough that he doesn't want to live there.
 
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I take it you pay use tax on online purchases you make, never go above the speed limit, etc...

Stop being such a prick.

The stepson is clearly a f*cking deadbeat and needs to be put out on his ass. He isn't being kicked out tomorrow with no notice. He was given an ultimatum many months back to get his shit straight and get his life on track. And if the OP feels a little pleasure getting this deadbeat out of his home, good for him. I'm sure it's pretty frustrating living with someone who amounts to a leeching lump; you can't baby the son forever.

None of those are felonies. No I have never commited a felony. He plans to steal thousands of dollars from the poor.
 
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