Deadbeat wifes son is moving out in Spring...actually forced out

[AMCRambler]

I think the last laugh will be had when smarty pants gets audited and has to explain 12k a year income that wasn't reported. Oh to be a fly on the wall that day.

 

[MJinZ]

Deadbeat wife eh...

 

[rasczak]

Deadbeat wife eh...

this.

 

[slayer202]

1. LOL
2. pics of wife's daughter?
3. another guy banged your wife, many many times, and she loved it

and you're the happy one?

 

[fantolay]

What a douche of a kid. And when he purchased the car, was he really stupid enough to sign shit?

 

[OutHouse]

wall of text

are you a mental midget or something?

 

[OutHouse]

Good luck finding someone dumb enough to pay you a $1,000 a month in rent and not claim it on their taxes.

Good God the stupid is strong in this one.


you can not claim rent on your taxes since they are paid with after tax money.

 

[x-alki]

Good God the stupid is strong in this one.


you can not claim rent on your taxes since they are paid with after tax money.

Some states you can. Indiana is one of them. Michigan isn't.

 

[RaistlinZ]

OP,

From what you've said about your step-son I doubt he'll actually follow through with finding a place in 6 weeks. What will you do when "the day" comes and he still hasn't found a place? Do you really think your wife will let you just throw him out bodily? I think that's what it will take, unfortunately.

Does he even have a job lined up?

 

[Russwinters]

OP,

From what you've said about your step-son I doubt he'll actually follow through with finding a place in 6 weeks. What will you do when "the day" comes and he still hasn't found a place? Do you really think your wife will let you just throw him out bodily? I think that's what it will take, unfortunately.

Does he even have a job lined up?

This.

It's going to end bad unless you actively help him.

You can say he is old enough to make his own decisions etc, but thats not true.

if he wasn't raised to make his own decisions, and was hand fed at every turn, then thats what he is going to be.

you need to find a more positive way to help him, and dont pretend like your going to get to the day and just throw everything out, because your not. You CAN, but shits going to hit the fan with your wife. If she babied him this far then shes not going to let you just throw him out the door with no job/home.

Your going to need to put in some work to get him motivated.


How did you get a job to afford a million dollar house? You don't seem sharp enough to pull that kind of career off.

 

[mjrpes3]

So the wifey has a problem with you pulling his internet connection now but won't have a problem when you're gonna force him onto the street in six weeks? Yeah, right. You're in for a surprise when the day comes for him to move out and she suddently has second thoughts. "Oh, we can't just throw him out on the street".

Save yourself some pain, pull his connection now, and lay down some strict rules for the next six weeks. If you can at least make his life somewhat hellish starting now, there's a chances he'll get angry enough to make some changes in his life before he is forced out. Maybe he'll start to realize an 8 hour job with "only" 6 hours at night to play his game is better than living with no internet connection. Amazing what a little motivation can do.

Seriously, cut the internet connection. Cause -> Effect

 

[mrrman]

I bet it's WoW, isn't it?

yes

 

[mrrman]

OP,

From what you've said about your step-son I doubt he'll actually follow through with finding a place in 6 weeks. What will you do when "the day" comes and he still hasn't found a place? Do you really think your wife will let you just throw him out bodily? I think that's what it will take, unfortunately.

Does he even have a job lined up?

His mother has talked to him and told him that he has until March 20th in this house...I will have the suite rented by the 1st of April and if his crap is still there...I will be moving it to the garage...

For all the people who are slagging me...eat shit...you dont know what its like to be in this situation...you are just blowing hot air..this guy has been out of school for 6 years...has done nothing and in the almost 2 years in my and my wife's house nothing still has changed. I had given him full time job opportunities and he refuses to check them out. I have no sympathy for him and in 6 weeks reality will bite him on the ass. I will still sleep fine at night.

 

[BassBomb]

are you a mental midget or something?

You quote me from 2009, bitch?

this thread is still gold

 

[zinfamous]

are you a mental midget or something?

You quote me from 2009, bitch?

this thread is still gold

what, did the new year manage to improve your intellect somehow?

 

[jinduy]

does he do drugs by any chance

 

[jinduy]

These are everywhere....moron

lol @ thinking someone could be a role model for a twenty-something adult... it's even harder when it's a stepfather. i can't blame the op.

 

[StageLeft]

Yes it is...its an illegal suite

Hehe

 

[mrrman]

How did you get a job to afford a million dollar house? You don't seem sharp enough to pull that kind of career off.[/QUOTE]

I am quite sharp...dont kid yourself...I set goals and get what I want

 

[BassBomb]

what, did the new year manage to improve your intellect somehow?

totally

 

[Blackjack200]

What does the OP do for a living? Judging by his post quality I'd guess assembly line/factory work, menial labor, or something like that. But a $1,000,000 house? I've known a lot of people that live in $1,000,000 houses, they don't have problems with getting their kids to move out of the basement, that's a lower middle class thing.

 

[seemingly random]

If this situation is true, the op should be open to the possibility that the kid may just be a symptom. The wife may be the real problem. There's a good chance that the situation will never get to an acceptable level and the only way to make things acceptable is to divorce yourself from the situation. (Speaking from experience.)

 

[ShawnD1]

does he do drugs by any chance

Sounds like he doesn't do drugs when he clearly should. Over the years, we've seen amazing advancements in the treatment of depression

Dexedrine and Adderall are incredible motivators. They're both amphetamines and I'm sure you'll love em.
what should have been an Adderall commercial

 

[SooperDave]

I understand what you are going thru and I understand why he needs to. I've walked that mile in your shoes except it is my own son. What I find troubling is your rabid hatred for this kid. You say you don't care and he means nothing to you but it is apparent he means a great deal to you. You despise him and revel in the idea of him being miserable. You gloat over being an active part in his soon to be homelessness/hunger. You have yet to mention that he has harmed anyone yet you wish harm unto him.

edit: needs to go (from the first line)

 

[Perknose]

anyway, the op sounds like a grade-a douchebag. that doesn't mean i'm taking the 24 year old's side... that just means that the op sounds like a douchebag.

^^^ Pretty much sums it up for me.

Plus I'm deliriously happy I didn't have to be the grammar Nazi to the OP in this case.