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[BooGiMaN]

this story can be viewed from so many angles

1. maybe the gf sister has repeatedly told him not to ride a bike because he is an idiot or simple because he has a family and so she feels he deserves what he got and left him to go on the cruise

2. maybe the gf is concerned about the nephews

3. maybe the gf and the brother in law have soem history together

4. maybe she is just doing what family does and told the sister to go on and take he trip because she needs to relax from all the stress and needs a vacation and told her not to worry about him or the kids shed take care of things.

we just dont know all the facts

 

[Ameesh]

you are a moron, youre gf sounds like a very responsible person, her sister sounds like a complete flake. she is completly correct, you should be understanding, its not like shes going on a cruise, shes taking care of her family when they need her.

 

[crystal]

Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
this story can be viewed from so many angles

1. maybe the gf sister has repeatedly told him not to ride a bike because he is an idiot or simple because he has a family and so she feels he deserves what he got and left him to go on the cruise 25%

2. maybe the gf is concerned about the nephews 50%

3. maybe the gf and the brother in law have soem history together 25%

4. maybe she is just doing what family does and told the sister to go on and take he trip because she needs to relax from all the stress and needs a vacation and told her not to worry about him or the kids shed take care of things. 75%

we just dont know all the facts

The percent of possibilities.

 

[mcvickj]

Your going to flush 6 years down the shitter because your GF decided to help out her family? GL with that one. She sounds like a very nice and caring person.

 

[LivinLaVivaPollo]

Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
this story can be viewed from so many angles

1. maybe the gf sister has repeatedly told him not to ride a bike because he is an idiot or simple because he has a family and so she feels he deserves what he got and left him to go on the cruise

2. maybe the gf is concerned about the nephews

3. maybe the gf and the brother in law have soem history together

4. maybe she is just doing what family does and told the sister to go on and take he trip because she needs to relax from all the stress and needs a vacation and told her not to worry about him or the kids shed take care of things.

we just dont know all the facts

The sister and husband are rocky. They don't have a good relationship. That's the reason she left, she didn't want to deal with him.

My GF doesn't understand responsibility. All her priorities are screwed up. She proscrastinates horribly. She had two weeks prior to move little things and clean up. She didn't. She never pays her credit cards on time, I have to remind her. She has never turned in her library books on time ever. I pay for all everything. I constantly cover up her mistakes. I'm even paying for the gas she's using to transport her sister's family around. I pay for the presents that she buys her niece and nephew. Yet, they hate me for some reason.

I'm just asking for a bit of compromise here. She starts work on Monday, and everything in the apartment is in boxes. She won't let me touch anything because she wants it done her way. She's a teacher, and she hasn't planned any of her lessons yet. She needs to come back here and do that. Instead, she would rather put ointment on a geriatric cripple.

 

[dquan97]

btw, moving from Santa Clara to Manteca is NOT "across CA"...1hr 16min trip is hardly even a drive.

Link

 

[BooGiMaN]

Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo

Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
this story can be viewed from so many angles

1. maybe the gf sister has repeatedly told him not to ride a bike because he is an idiot or simple because he has a family and so she feels he deserves what he got and left him to go on the cruise

2. maybe the gf is concerned about the nephews

3. maybe the gf and the brother in law have soem history together

4. maybe she is just doing what family does and told the sister to go on and take he trip because she needs to relax from all the stress and needs a vacation and told her not to worry about him or the kids shed take care of things.

we just dont know all the facts

The sister and husband are rocky. They don't have a good relationship. That's the reason she left, she didn't want to deal with him.

My GF doesn't understand responsibility. All her priorities are screwed up. She proscrastinates horribly. She had two weeks prior to move little things and clean up. She didn't. She never pays her credit cards on time, I have to remind her. She has never turned in her library books on time ever. I pay for all everything. I constantly cover up her mistakes. I'm even paying for the gas she's using to transport her sister's family around.

I'm just asking for a bit of compromise here. She starts work on Monday, and everything in the apartment is in boxes. She won't let me touch anything because she wants it done her way. She's a teacher, and she hasn't planned any of her lessons yet. She needs to come back here and do that. Instead, she would rather put ointment on a geriatric cripple.

and this is the kind of person you want to be bound to in marriage for the rest of your life?

i would sit down and really think about this, being married to her is just goignt o make things worse, she will expect you to bail her out all the time....and when you decide you have had enough...she will take half of what you own...

 

[LivinLaVivaPollo]

Originally posted by: dquan97
btw, moving from Santa Clara to Manteca is NOT "across CA"...1hr 16min trip is hardly even a drive.

Link

But, moving furniture from a 3rd story apartment with no elevator to a 3rd story apartment with no elevator for 36 hours straight with no sleep is a bit taxing, don't you agree? Especially right after taken final exams? Literally, hours after?

 

[compnovice]

Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo
I'm just asking for a bit of compromise here. She starts work on Monday, and everything in the apartment is in boxes. She won't let me touch anything because she wants it done her way. She's a teacher, and she hasn't planned any of her lessons yet. She needs to come back here and do that. Instead, she would rather put ointment on a geriatric cripple.

wtf....

 

[bennylong]

You should leave your GF and get someone that's less caring. You don't deserve someone that care about you or care about anyone else.

 

[LivinLaVivaPollo]

Originally posted by: bennylong
You should leave your GF and get someone that's less caring. You don't deserve someone that care about you or care about anyone else.

It's not that. It's the fact that she takes no responsibility for almost anything else in her life. I have to take care of almost everything for her, yet when she needs to bail her sister out, she's able to all of a sudden take responsibility for that? It's BS.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: hungfarover
Boy your GF's siter really loves her husband. HTF can she go on a cruise and leave that poor dude at home? /boggle

OP's GF is banging the sister's husband

 

[NatePo717]

wait a sec..... no one's requested pics yet? :camera:

 

[Kelvrick]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: hungfarover
Boy your GF's siter really loves her husband. HTF can she go on a cruise and leave that poor dude at home? /boggle

OP's GF is banging the sister's husband

Yep, that cream is just more lube.

 

[Supahobnobba]

Dude you are being pretty selfish. We get that you have classes, exams, etc... Though your GF is in a pretty big spot being pitted between you and her family. If I were her I'd choose family too. Though her sister may be an ass and all that you have to be the bigger man and be a little understanding. Don't forget that they may soon be your family also.


Stop being a prick to her and realize what you have. She's about to be your damn wife and if you can't get through something as small as this then you should not be marrying anyone at this time.

 

[Kelvrick]

Originally posted by: Supahobnobba
Dude you are being pretty selfish. We get that you have classes, exams, etc... Though your GF is in a pretty big spot being pitted between you and her family. If I were her I'd choose family too. Though her sister may be an ass and all that you have to be the bigger man and be a little understanding. Don't forget that they may soon be your family also.


Stop being a prick to her and realize what you have. She's about to be your damn wife and if you can't get through something as small as this then you should not be marrying anyone at this time.

The kids ok, but I wouldn't consider a sister's husband family.

 

[bennylong]

Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo

Originally posted by: bennylong
You should leave your GF and get someone that's less caring. You don't deserve someone that care about you or care about anyone else.

It's not that. It's the fact that she takes no responsibility for almost anything else in her life. I have to take care of almost everything for her, yet when she needs to bail her sister out, she's able to all of a sudden take responsibility for that? It's BS.

Well, dude, I think that tells you something about how she feels about you. I think you know where this relationship is going. That is a little strange for someone to be taking care of the sister's husband when she can't take care of anything else.

You positive she doesn't have a thing for this husband?

 

[foghorn67]

It would be one thing if it was your GF sister being crippled. Or if they were both crippled.
She should have punched her sister in the neck.
Also, did your GF bring up the thought of taking care of her husband while she was away. Or did her ask first? This is important.
The difference is:
-Your GF's sister is crafty, lazy and irresponsible, so she baked up a sympathy story, and got your GF to suggest going on the cruise anyway, or she flat out asked your GF.

And...why did your GF sit around for a week?

 

[ITJunkie]

Originally posted by: Ausm
WTF??? You gf should tell her sister to get a life and fullfill her OWN responsibilities! Pushing her injured husband off on her sister to go on a cruise is lame.



Ausm

exactly

/thread

 

[crystal]

Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo

Originally posted by: dquan97
btw, moving from Santa Clara to Manteca is NOT "across CA"...1hr 16min trip is hardly even a drive.

Link

But, moving furniture from a 3rd story apartment with no elevator to a 3rd story apartment with no elevator for 36 hours straight with no sleep is a bit taxing, don't you agree? Especially right after taken final exams? Literally, hours after?

And you expect her to move all that by herself. boo...

 

[LivinLaVivaPollo]

Originally posted by: foghorn67
It would be one thing if it was your GF sister being crippled. Or if they were both crippled.
She should have punched her sister in the neck.
Also, did your GF bring up the thought of taking care of her husband while she was away. Or did her ask first? This is important.
The difference is:
-Your GF's sister is crafty, lazy and irresponsible, so she baked up a sympathy story, and got your GF to suggest going on the cruise anyway, or she flat out asked your GF.

And...why did your GF sit around for a week?

My GF didn't run any of this by me. She just said "I have to go take care of them." My guess is that she feels bad for her sister to have to miss her trip, so she was willing to cover for her. She feels sorry for her older sister all the time because she got pregnant when she was young and never got to have fun. So this is her way of allowing her older sister to enjoy herself.

The issue isn't that I'm not being understanding, it's that they are taking advantange of her and she is too blind to see it. She keeps calling and extending how much she needs to help them. She was supposed to be home on Friday, but they need her through the weekend, so now she'll literally have to go to her FIRST DAY OF TEACHING from someone elses' house and basically wing her first lesson. You can help your family, but don't do it at your own professional peril.

And since the husband was so immobile, he couldn't pick up his motorcycle, SO my GF volunteered to go get it AND pick up the tow bill. Wtf is that. That just means I'll be paying for it one way or another.

Horse poo.

 

[LivinLaVivaPollo]

Originally posted by: crystal

Originally posted by: LivinLaVivaPollo

Originally posted by: dquan97
btw, moving from Santa Clara to Manteca is NOT "across CA"...1hr 16min trip is hardly even a drive.

Link

But, moving furniture from a 3rd story apartment with no elevator to a 3rd story apartment with no elevator for 36 hours straight with no sleep is a bit taxing, don't you agree? Especially right after taken final exams? Literally, hours after?

And you expect her to move all that by herself. boo...

No. I expected her to clean portions of the apartment and move small items because she HAD THREE WEEKS OFF! Instead she did nothing for the first two weeks and then left for the third week. In other words, she did nothing. Which means I had to cover for all the work she couldn't do and basically work like a horse to try to get out of the apartment in time.

 

[newParadigm]

Originally posted by: JS80
i would be suspect of her if she DIDN'T HELP HER OWN FAMILY BECAUSE HER SISTER IS AN IRRESPONSIBLE DOUCHE. at least she's not like her sister, who goes on a cruise by herself with an injured husband at home and has her sister take care of her family.

which means when you're sick and dying she will be tending to your needs. you're a selfish jerk. you don't deserve her.

Werd. Seriously tho, its her sister you should be yelling at not her. Its not her responsability to take care of her sister's husband, but her sister already abandoned that responsability, so becuase your sister wants to make sure that her brother in law can recover well, and that her neices and nephews can get to skewl and get fed, means there's a problem. The only problem I see here is that shes pissed away the first two weeks of her time off. At this point she has no choice about what to do regarding her family.

 

[waggy]

i have to kinda agree with the OP. I would be pissed off if the women i been living with for years was going over to take care of another guy and staying there.

it is not her responsibility to do that. if she wants to help she can go over for part of the day and make sure he is OK and has at least 1 good meal a day. but to stay there all day and night? nope. i would have problems with that.

also what kind of person takes off when there spouse is hurt? WTF good that marriage is not going to work out.

 

[mk52]

dude this chick better be ze HOTTNESSS