Originally posted by: luvly
Hon?, you better give a second thought before you try advancing. If you cherish those hands or lips of yours, think whether you are willing to see them disappear. :Q LOL! Seriously though, stop the hallucination. You?ll see what your mind wants to see.
Can a girl get touchy? Yes, she can. She very much can, so stop reading too much into it. Even if all you said were true, either she's weird or that is her nature and you're reading too much into it. I refuse to believe that she's so childish that she can't be straight-forward with you if she wanted something from you when you've already made clear that you're interested in her. Hence, I conclude that you?re reading too much into it. Could she possibly have feelings for you? Yes. But does that give you the licence to touch her? No. A girl having feelings for a guy is not to be equated with that. It?s one thing if you never told her that you liked her, but it's another when you?ve actually told her that you like her.
Yeah because we know how straigtforward and mature women can be
they never mince their words, no, not women.
Don't ignore what she said:
"there's this girl that i like and she knows how i feel about her... i asked her if she wanted to try out our relationship and she said that something was preventing her, which is she wants to find herself or be alone for now."
He can't ignore what she said, but she can ignore it to her hearts content? Oh of course she can, I forgot, shes a WOMAN, women don't have to play by any rules, they can just make up whats acceptable or not on the fly, and if you go against that YOU are the jerk
If she were so sure of you, she would never give any excuses. She's truly trying to find herself. Don't make any advances, as that would constitute harassment. I'm sure she likes your company and probably has some kind of feeling toward you, but to her that does not translate to being a bf/gf or making advances. She probably wants to be your friend and enjoy that flirting.
Yet another reason to be rid of girls forever, if she flirts with you and gives off OBVIOUS signals it's harrassment if you respond
. K if you don't want to be involved with someone don't act like she acts, plain and simple, no rational (theres the problem) person would do that. Only a woman.
Remind me when next meeting with male friends to rid myself of the innocent touches, be very cautious and never touch them, as some of them might read into it and feel that gives them the ticket to make advances.
If you love yourself, don't ever mess with a woman/girl who clearly states that she wants her moment alone to find herself. Basically, it's a subtle way of saying, "I like you, but just as a friend, for you have not successfully convinced me that I should sacrifice my independence or freedom for a relationship with you in particular."
I seriously wonder how many more times I can use
here....always one extreme or the other, its either "oh I can't touch men at all" not "oh maybe I shouldn't touch them in certain ways, or under certain circumstances that might lead them to believe otherwise.". Since you obviously werent paying attention let me explain it, its not that she was touching him, it's that she was doing so in a rather serious manner, and in a very unusual (for her) fashion. And all this changed after he talked to her about being together.