Do I call this girl or not? She has blown me off once...

[iwearnosox]

pics?

 

[eakers]

i wonder if she ever called.

 

[IBuyUFO]

Can't you find a date in the real world with people you actually know?

 

[Chadder007]

Originally posted by: Atrail
don't waste your time,
cause you will be wasting your time

 

[silverpig]

Lay off a bit.. You phone her one night, email her the next morning, and then expect her to call that day?

Chill.

 

[hdeck]

Originally posted by: eakers
i wonder if she ever called.

probably not

*edit* w00t i'm diamond!

 

[bonk102]

Originally posted by: Jzero
Step one: Don't call.
Step two: stop looking for love on the internet.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

If she wanted you she would have called you. Get over it

 

[isekii]

He prolly scared her off

 

[Bleep]

Send her a cactus. insert a note saying "so I heard you like little pricks, well here is a bunch of them for you. Sign it Richard Head

Bleep

 

[kasparov]

Originally posted by: datalink7

Originally posted by: hdeck

Originally posted by: y2kc
do not call.

 

[ndee]

forget her. Don't call.

 

[Shawn]

Originally posted by: Jzero
Step one: Don't call.
Step two: stop looking for love on the internet.

werd

 

[Shantanu]

There's this thing called "interest level"

Learn how to gauge it.

To start you off, this girl's interest in you is probably close to zero.

 

[DDCSpeed]

I say give her 2 more chance and call her again. She gave you her number didnt she? If so, then she must be interested...if you got it some other way then I dont know. But do give her a call and check it out.

 

[TripleAAA]

Ok, some posters think I never even met this girl...but if you can read the very first post, we did go out, had a coffee and a good conversation.

Also as mentioned before, I've met a few girls on the internet and OFF the internet. It's not like I spend my whole day on those personals sites. If I come across something of interest, then I may pursue it...that simple.

Ok, to update you all. No, she hasn't called me back and at this point, I don't expect her to. Sorry no pics, but she was pretty good looking. I emailed her basically for the last time this morning and said that if she wanted to go out again, to email or call me, but I told her that I didn't want to seem pushy by calling her if she wasn't interested. I told her I thought she was a cool chick and I had a good time with her the other night...that's it. So, I'm leaving it at that for now and we'll see what happens.

 

[stev0]

Originally posted by: gopunk
forget about her, if she wants to talk to you, she will contact you

exactly. if she blew you off once, she'll do it again. let this one be.

 

[cyclistca]

TripleAAA don't worry about it. I've done the Internet dating thing on and off for years (God know why). I've meet several women and things went really great. At the end of the date it was almost always I would love to see you again but they would never call, e-mail etc.

I would not totally blow off Internet dating. I have three friend that met their present wifes that way and they all have great relationships. I guess that's what keeps me doing it.

And yes I have really friends. Unfortunatly the female ones are either married, taken, there's is no chemistry, or they play for the other team. :Q

 

[TuffGirl]

Originally posted by: Bleep
Send her a cactus. insert a note saying "so I heard you like little pricks, well here is a bunch of them for you. Sign it Richard Head

Bleep

OMG LMAO!! Thanks for the laugh.


TripleAAA, I think the girl is either intentionally blowing you off and hoping you will give up, or in the case that she really did get sidetracked, then her failure to call you back when she said she would is a sign of flakiness, which you should not stand for if you have any dignity. Also, keep in mind when you say things like "no problem" (when she gives you a lame excuse) and "I don't want to seem pushy", those are just invitations for a girl to walk all over you. If you don't want that to happen, just be aloof to her when she is flaky; don't be all accommodating about it. See if her flakiness becomes a pattern and if it does just forget about her and tell yourself you can do better.

 

[TripleAAA]

Good advice Klee

 

[TuffGirl]

Originally posted by: TripleAAA
Good advice Klee

Yeah I learned a lot of those things the hard way. Live and learn.

 

[her209]

Do yourself a favor and get rid of her.

 

[wasssup]

LOL @ internet dating

 

[TripleAAA]

What's so bad about internet dating? It's easy, convenient, and you can BLOW the other person off with not a lot of repercussion! Kinda like what happened to me....

 

[SCSIfreek]

girl is not interested in you. get the idea? good. now move on.


--Scsi