Do I call this girl or not? She has blown me off once...

[Ernieb]

Just call for at least one more time and see......no harm
there's always a chance when you try

 

[txxxx]

Originally posted by: Ernieb
Just call for at least one more time and see......no harm
there's always a chance when you try

....and dont take it personally.

 

[Alphazero]

Calm down guys, it's only happened once. It's not the end of the world, it could be just a one-time thing. If it does happen again, drop her then.

 

[kh3443]

I don't agree with most of the guys here. I say call her again, but just to talk. Girls likes persistence and a no means yes to girls. Playing hard to get is how they make you want them more. Most of these guys telling you not to call and don't waste your time are idiots? Girls don't just fall on your lap and asking you to become your girlfriends, you have to court them. If you are interested in this girl then of course it isn't wasting your time. You have nothing to lose. If you are persistent enough and play your cards right, you'll get her. Sorry to say its all in your game. You don't want to play games, you say? Sorry guy, life is all a big game. Good luck.

 

[weezergirl]

Originally posted by: kh3443
I don't agree with most of the guys here. I say call her again, but just to talk. Girls likes persistence and a no means yes to girls. Playing hard to get is how they make you want them more. Most of these guys telling you not to call and don't waste your time are idiots? Girls don't just fall on your lap and asking you to become your girlfriends, you have to court them. If you are interested in this girl then of course it isn't wasting your time. You have nothing to lose. If you are persistent enough and play your cards right, you'll get her. Sorry to say its all in your game. You don't want to play games, you say? Sorry guy, life is all a big game. Good luck.

no you have it wrong, girls HATE it when guys are too persistent. it makes them appear desperate and too "easy". GIRLS like it when the guy is hard to get. it's a sad fact but guys need to learn when a girl is telling them no "nicely".
unless you are really hot and have a stunning personality and have no problems getting girls..then yes...i'm sure any girl would love for you to court them. but i'm guessing the average poster here is some lonely geek and this does not work for them.

 

[bujuranks]

If she is really hot and you are really interested in her, call her again. Ask her if she is interested in you or not because you don't want to waste your time chasing a waterfall. Others have given good advice as well but you have to call her and get a definite answer. This way if she says no you won't be wondering about it later in life.

 

[Nyical]

Well hot damn, for once I am not average!!!

Married for 5 great years.

 

[kh3443]

no you have it wrong, girls HATE it when guys are too persistent. it makes them appear desperate and too "easy". GIRLS like it when the guy is hard to get. it's a sad fact but guys need to learn when a girl is telling them no "nicely".

You do have a point, but not calling will not get the girl. Calling again is being persistent. And a normal geek would not call because he thinks its a lost cause. And if you are persistent in a non-geeky fashion with the right "game" you have a better chance with the girl. So I don't have it wrong and a no does mean a yes to girls to a certain degree.

 

[kh3443]

If she is really hot and you are really interested in her, call her again. Ask her if she is interested in you or not because you don't want to waste your time chasing a waterfall. Others have given good advice as well but you have to call her and get a definite answer. This way if she says no you won't be wondering about it later in life.

Very good point, but your job is to make that no into a yes.