do most people experience this at strip clubs?

[Dear Summer]

I went only once and it was a few years ago.

I went with a friend and of course the girls are trying to get money out of you from the beginning. The lap dance costs about $25, and I told the girl that I only had $20 which was true. The girl covered the rest for me. Kind of weird from the beginning. I thought they would walk away knowing that I was broke.

Anyway, during the lap dance, I complimented her various times and I think she enjoyed my compliments... don't most upscale places have a rule of no touching? because I was able to do whatever I wanted with my hands (going to keep the real details secret) and she was completely naked. She kept asking me what I wanted... hmm ok. I was at one of the most popular and recognized strip clubs in the state, so it wasn't a trashy middle of nowhere place.

then she started french kissing me out of nowhere, wtf?

I kind of got hesitant and turned away because she's a stripper. I do not trust her at all.... wtf would she do that. Then because of my reaction, it kind of ended.

My friend chose one of the hotter latina chicks and he told me he had sex with her. I have no idea if strip clubs are supposed to be like this.

 

[Arkaign]

Are you in troll mode of late or what?

http://forums.anandtech.com/me...=2306007&enterthread=y

Anyways ...

 

[ProfJohn]

Where is this place??

 

[buck]

ATOT is not your diary.

 

[Newbian]

You didn't go to a strip club... you hired some hookers.

Was there blow nearby?

 

[TheVrolok]

Is this real question? No, most often you do not get to have sex with the strippers (legally).

 

[CRXican]

how much did it cost him?

 

[jinduy]

Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Where is this place??

this

edit: bolded for emphasis

 

[fuzzybabybunny]

Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Where is this place??

I would like to know as well.

EDIT: It wasn't O'Farrel Theatre in San Fran was it?

 

[Stuxnet]

Shens on a stick.

 

[SSSnail]

Dear Summer...

... I get it now!!!

 

[zerocool84]

It's widely known that they will have sex with you if you have the money. You have to be careful with which ones. You usually get a feel for which ones are down or not.

 

[AstroManLuca]

You sure they didn't have penises?

 

[her209]

So did you get genital warts around your mouth?

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

She was probably high or coked out
-AE

 

[guyver01]

she probably looked at you and saw "sucker" written all over your face..

she figured if she gave you some 'play' .. you'd be back nightly with your money hoping to get more from her.

so do most people experience this? nope.. only the hard-up losers.

 

[gooseman]

Just remember, there is no sex in the champagne room!

 

[KingGheedora]

No. One in Vegas once sat on my lap for about an hour, and told me her life story and about how her boyfriend beat her. I got a $20 lap dance from her after that as a courtesy.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: guyver01
she probably looked at you and saw "sucker" written all over your face..

she figured if she gave you some 'play' .. you'd be back nightly with your money hoping to get more from her.

so do most people experience this? nope.. only the hard-up losers.

no, it's obviously the atot effect at work. he must be super attractive, super rich 9despite saying he only had $20, and probably rolled in in a ferrari. The compliments he kept giving her were things like "your tits are bigger than my super model gf's."

 

[shortylickens]

I went to strip clubs a lot when I was 18/19. Very first time is was kinda cool, but more of an annoying tease than anything else. It was a full-nude place, but it was in Florida, and fully nude means absolutely no touching and no alcohol of any kind. Overall: Nice shock value but after the first time, its a waste.

Eventually I found a place that was much nicer. Full liquor, but that meant no nudity at all. HOWEVER, if there werent too many people in the joint, and the manager knew everybody, he would lock the door and the girls would get buck naked and crazy on the dance platform. This was back when a bunch of bikers ran the club and they were actually pretty cool.
Fun times. Dumb as it may sound it was like the Cheers of strip bars. All the gals were cool, you could talk to them (and most of them did NOT exhibit all the classic stripper problems like "daddy issues" and so forth), the regulars were all nice guys and we all had a lot of fun. I would say that only lasted for about two summers. Then everything went to shit and I never visited again.
Incidentally, dances were only ten bucks, and the girls really worked for it. Kinda weird to be hanging out with a cool chick and then all of a sudden you find her riding your junk like a cow girl. Never pulled my pecker out and never kissed any of them aside from a cheek, but I suppose it may have happened occasionally.
Now the girls are cold and mean and all bussiness, and they charge a lot more than 10 dollars. I will never have a time quite like that again in my life, but I appreciate that it did happen briefly for two summers.


Back to the OP: I would be leary. Just like sex with a regular girl, if she is doing it for you, I PROMISE, she is doing to other guys as well. I would not deep french a random stripper whom I just met.
Heck, back at that one place I knew all the girls really well, and with possibly one exception I would never deep kiss any of them.

Thats just strange, and the chick is either really messed up, or was attempting to see if you wanted to pay extra for a little handjob or blowjob I suspect. BAD IDEA! Have heard of a couple buddies who tried that shit and it never worked out. Either the cops bust you or bouncers kick your ass.
If this girl did not make any such offer I suspect it was because of your reaction, she didnt think you were a good target.
Or she really is crazy.

 

[UsandThem]

The Op's post is now confirmed. Here is the video from the security cameras proving he was telling the truth.

Lucky Bastard - NSFW

 

[ViviTheMage]

fishy

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

I recently went to a strip club for my bachelor party and they definitely didn't do that.

 

[amdhunter]

Originally posted by: jinduy

Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Where is this place??

this

edit: bolded for emphasis

I am interested too. Maybe we can all get into a group buy?

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

Originally posted by: amdhunter

Originally posted by: jinduy

Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Where is this place??

this

edit: bolded for emphasis

I am interested too. Maybe we can all get into a group buy?

Maybe the OP has a preferred member card we can get in on.