Do picky eaters annoy you?

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Jeff7

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Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: Jeff7
Nope, because I am one. The selection of things that actually taste good to me is quite limited.

i was that way until a few years ago, then i started to learn about food and cooking and wanted to try new flavors and things. ive gotten to eat *a lot* of things i hated as a kid.

suck it up, try some new stuff with an open mind, maybe surprise yourself.

theres a few things i still cant get over that i absolutely HATED as a kid. baked beans, close slaw, and yellow mustard (brown is good eats) top the list.
I don't really see how an "open mind" will help the flavor of something. It's not going to change the chemical makeup of the food, nor is it going to alter the flavor.

I've yet to come across anything that has miraculously changed flavor since I was first exposed to it. If anything, my forays into cooking have shown me numerous disgusting new things. For example, I have now sampled "brewed" soy sauce, which is apparently the way it's meant to be made, and not the hydrolyzed stuff I was familiar with. It's kind of like salty soy wine, and it stinks of alcohol. I also used oyster sauce in this same recipe. I think someone bottled Satan's smegma and sold it as oyster sauce. Sesame oil was also used, and it too carried a rather offensive smell.

This was all in an attempt to make beef lo mein according to a recipe. I'm fairly sure that it turned out correctly too; the flavor did seem like I'd imagine it should be - the recipe was apparently geared toward making "authentic" Chinese food, and not the Americanized stuff that's usually sold in restaurants. But good god it was horrible. And I don't like wasting food, but it went in the trash. The apartment reeked of the smell of the various ingredients for several days after. Most people seem to become immune or acclimated to a smell after a certain period of time. I don't seem to do that; it stays just as strong, unpleasant, and distracting a few hours later as it does when I would first walk into it.



I also never knew what the big problem was; my mom always made these PA Dutch dishes, or stuff from around the world. I learned to fear the words, "Try this, it's good!" because it was almost never true for me. But then, I was thinking along these lines: "I'll gladly eat <dish I like> every day for a week, and it's easy to cook the same thing over and over. What's the problem?"

Unfortunately I also eventually found that the prep time for some of the things I like could literally be hours, or even a full day of tending to various pots on a stove. Yeah, screw that. Food isn't worth that kind of trouble. An hour or less is what I'll tolerate in the kitchen. Tedious, mindless food prep work should be left to machines. It just sucks that most prepared food is about 50% sodium and preservatives.


 

Locut0s

Lifer
Nov 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: StinkyPinky
It's all relative. My chinese wife loves to gnaw on fish heads and duck heads and pig eyes.

But hates chicken.

She's Chinese but hates chicken?
 

Locut0s

Lifer
Nov 28, 2001
22,205
43
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Originally posted by: Jeff7
Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: Jeff7
Nope, because I am one. The selection of things that actually taste good to me is quite limited.

i was that way until a few years ago, then i started to learn about food and cooking and wanted to try new flavors and things. ive gotten to eat *a lot* of things i hated as a kid.

suck it up, try some new stuff with an open mind, maybe surprise yourself.

theres a few things i still cant get over that i absolutely HATED as a kid. baked beans, close slaw, and yellow mustard (brown is good eats) top the list.
I don't really see how an "open mind" will help the flavor of something. It's not going to change the chemical makeup of the food, nor is it going to alter the flavor.

I've yet to come across anything that has miraculously changed flavor since I was first exposed to it. If anything, my forays into cooking have shown me numerous disgusting new things. For example, I have now sampled "brewed" soy sauce, which is apparently the way it's meant to be made, and not the hydrolyzed stuff I was familiar with. It's kind of like salty soy wine, and it stinks of alcohol. I also used oyster sauce in this same recipe. I think someone bottled Satan's smegma and sold it as oyster sauce. Sesame oil was also used, and it too carried a rather offensive smell.

This was all in an attempt to make beef lo mein according to a recipe. I'm fairly sure that it turned out correctly too; the flavor did seem like I'd imagine it should be - the recipe was apparently geared toward making "authentic" Chinese food, and not the Americanized stuff that's usually sold in restaurants. But good god it was horrible. And I don't like wasting food, but it went in the trash. The apartment reeked of the smell of the various ingredients for several days after. Most people seem to become immune or acclimated to a smell after a certain period of time. I don't seem to do that; it stays just as strong, unpleasant, and distracting a few hours later as it does when I would first walk into it.



I also never knew what the big problem was; my mom always made these PA Dutch dishes, or stuff from around the world. I learned to fear the words, "Try this, it's good!" because it was almost never true for me. But then, I was thinking along these lines: "I'll gladly eat <dish I like> every day for a week, and it's easy to cook the same thing over and over. What's the problem?"

Unfortunately I also eventually found that the prep time for some of the things I like could literally be hours, or even a full day of tending to various pots on a stove. Yeah, screw that. Food isn't worth that kind of trouble. An hour or less is what I'll tolerate in the kitchen. Tedious, mindless food prep work should be left to machines. It just sucks that most prepared food is about 50% sodium and preservatives.

I pray for your soul. Such a sad sad situation
 

txrandom

Diamond Member
Aug 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: zerocool1
Originally posted by: SagaLore
I answered the poll before reading your post. I think you've got the wording wrong. Cutting out JUNK is not picky, its smart. I thought you meant like "ewww avocado, ewww oregano, ewww shrimp", etc.

this.

i'm a vegetarian.

I don't think vegetarians are picky for not eating meat or Moslems are picky for not eating pork. But if a vegetarian doesn't eat tomatoes, onions, etc, I'd think they are picky.
 

txrandom

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Aug 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: zeruty
Originally posted by: nerp
Originally posted by: zeruty
Where the hell do you live? There is delicious international food all around me.

Define "delicious international food"

Well.

Ranges from americanized foods like teriyaki, panda express, etc.
To authentic Thai, Indian, Chinese, Japanese, , Korean, etc. The little buses with Mexican food can be pretty good, etc.

Eating Chinese with a Chinese guy from Hong Kong at fuckin deelish authentic Chinese restaurants in Vancouver, BC is pretty dope...
I have an Indian co-worker who likes taking me to legit Indian restaurants.

I used to work at a computer store with several Koreans... they had some delicious home-made food and pointed me towards some good Korean restaurants.

There is pretty good Chinese around here too....

Plus things like mongolian grills, etc.

And that's all within a 10 mile radius of me, most of them can be had within 3 miles.

I could drive 20 miles to Seattle and get pretty much anything.

I'm constantly on the lookout for new things to try....

Key to "authentic" food is to find a restaurant where you are the only white person (only works if you are white). Also, the "ethnicity" of the restaurant, and the ethnicity of the restaurant personnel must be the same.
 

skace

Lifer
Jan 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: GeekDrew
No, not since I'm an extremely picky eater. Very, very little actually tastes good to me.

What people need to realize is that taste is actually dynamic. You aren't born with a very specific set of tastes that never change. That's why sugar and the average American diet can "ruin your appetite". Just like some people who enjoy drinking soda a lot don't like the taste of water. It's not that water doesn't taste good, or that their taste buds are unique, it's that their taste buds have adapted to the ridiculous amount of sugar in their average beverage.

When people force themselves to adapt their taste buds they learn about all the things they've been missing. That's not my business though, and we all have our own lines, like I probably won't ever eat any insects on purpose.

The best eating habit is to remember that things like peppers/onions/mushrooms didn't get popular by being awful. That's when you start to enjoy food the way it was meant to be.
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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My son will drive you up the wall if you hate picky eaters. He's 9, and he likes and dislikes foods on a random schedule. Drives me crazy.

 

surfsatwerk

Lifer
Mar 6, 2008
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Originally posted by: Fritzo
My son will drive you up the wall if you hate picky eaters. He's 9, and he likes and dislikes foods on a random schedule. Drives me crazy.

Take him off feed for a couple days, a little starvation is good for the soul.
 

txrandom

Diamond Member
Aug 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: surfsatwerk
Originally posted by: Fritzo
My son will drive you up the wall if you hate picky eaters. He's 9, and he likes and dislikes foods on a random schedule. Drives me crazy.

Take him off feed for a couple days, a little starvation is good for the soul.

I like to call it character building.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: CRXican
onion haters, terrible!

I don't mind onions, but avoid them whenever possible as a public service.

Originally posted by: tasmanian
What really annoys me is people who hate tomatoes, but like ketchup, tomato sauce, ect.

Hey, it's not our fault that the tomato has a completely wretched texture in it's natural state.
 

Kev

Lifer
Dec 17, 2001
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I just refuse to eat asian or indian food. I think it looks, smells, and tastes disgusting and I don't understand what people enjoy about it.
 

yhelothar

Lifer
Dec 11, 2002
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depends
i don't care if they don't want tomato on their burger
but if they absofuckinglutely have to go to the same god damned 2-3 restaurants everytime we want to hang out, god damn that's annoying.
 

skace

Lifer
Jan 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Hey, it's not our fault that the tomato has a completely wretched texture in it's natural state.

Fresh tomatoes are godlike.
 

Kev

Lifer
Dec 17, 2001
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Originally posted by: Jeff7
Originally posted by: tasmanian
What really annoys me is people who hate tomatoes, but like ketchup, tomato sauce, ect.


So if someone likes bread, should they also enjoy a nice big bowl of flour?



Originally posted by: joshsquall
I'm picky. It's not like we're picky just to be assholes. If things don't taste good to us, why should we eat them?
Indeed.

And sheesh, what's all this concern about people who don't like certain foods, like they're missing out on the best thing in life besides sex with sliced bread.
It's just food.

Though my relationship with food is tenuous. In 2001: A Space Odyssey, they had meal pills.
I would absolutely love something like that so I wouldn't have to be bothered with eating, or food preparation. It's more of an annoyance than anything.

:thumbsup:

I don't understand people who spend over an hour preparing their meals, and using so many dishes that it takes 20 minutes to clean up.

Then it takes 5 minutes to devour the meal. And the end result: you're not hungry anymore. Yay.
 

Cogman

Lifer
Sep 19, 2000
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Picky is bad, noisy is horrible. Keep your mouth closed while you eat, you don't need to smack the top of your mouth with every chew, and I shouldn't hear your teeth clicking each time you chew...
 

xboxist

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Jun 25, 2002
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Yes and no.

I don't really care what they choose to eat or to not eat. But when it affects what/where I eat, then it's annoying. Like having a friend that will pass on going on a certain restaurant because they won't like anything there. So you're either forced to go to a place where they'd eat, or let them sit this one out.
 

surfsatwerk

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Mar 6, 2008
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Originally posted by: Kev
I just refuse to eat asian or indian food. I think it looks, smells, and tastes disgusting and I don't understand what people enjoy about it.

.... around half of the world's population chooses to eat disgusting food? How about they know more about good food than you ever will.
 

surfsatwerk

Lifer
Mar 6, 2008
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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Hey, it's not our fault that the tomato has a completely wretched texture in it's natural state.

Fresh tomatoes are godlike.

Maybe if you're talking about Cthulhu.

It makes sense that you reference The Great Old One, because you have obviously lost your mind to madness long, long ago.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: surfsatwerk
It makes sense that you reference The Great Old One, because you have obviously lost your mind to madness long, long ago.

I'd rather be mad than eat raw tomatoes, in any case.
 

aldamon

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Aug 2, 2000
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Originally posted by: sjwaste
Incredibly. I have a few friends who basically don't venture past burgers, boneless skinless chicken breast, and fries.

We know someone like this as well, and now her kids are turning out the same way. Is this learned behavior? Coddling? There are a few things I don't care for but I won't absolutely refuse to eat them like it would end my life.
 

hanoverphist

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Dec 7, 2006
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Originally posted by: sjwaste
Incredibly. I have a few friends who basically don't venture past burgers, boneless skinless chicken breast, and fries. Occasionally a salad. It's aggravating because you usually have to accommodate them if you have a BBQ at your place, and you basically have to pick some place boring if you're going out to eat.

no you dont. i have a couple picky eater friends, and they understand that the group majority rules their visit. if the group says chinese and they dont like it, they either eat something they can deal with, dont eat or dont go. when they come to a bbq and dont like bbq, they can bring their own food.

picky eaters dont bother me, damn near every restaurant will alter an order to accommodate people, so its no skin off my back if they special order stuff. i like things a certain way, but i cant think of many foods i wont eat if they were offered. well, squid, octopus and maybe tgifridays.
 

hanoverphist

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Originally posted by: sjwaste
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
I know what I like and I know what I hate. But I'm willing to at least try anything. This includes Rocky Mountain Oysters and pig ears in China, both of which were fucking nasty.

*Googles Rocky Mountain Oysters*

Da fuck?!

I've never had them, but I'd try them. I've heard the texture is kind of weird, a bit too firm, like a hard boiled egg, and kind of bland.

But yeah, goes back to the days where we didn't waste anything, especially on the Western frontier.

i used to work with a lady whose husband would cook a whole cow and cure the meat, just like his dad did. the head would go into the oven and slow roast, and the eyes were the delicacy. they would pick all the face meat off and make a stew out of it, you could get a couple meals out of it. i was there one time when they did this, and i was given one of the eyes on a piece of bread. squishy, juicy eyeball sammich. i ate it, but id likely not try it again.
 

QuantumPion

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Jun 27, 2005
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I'm not too picky about ingredients but I am picky about texture, freshness, preparation, etc.

For example, if I go to Wendy's to get a burger, and it is all squished or the bun is soggy, I'll just toss it.
 
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